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look my sister emailed my guyfriend and said i hated him but thought he was hot! and said it was from me!!!!!!! even though thats not the way i fell!he always ignores me and won't talk to me even though i've explained a 17870 times that it was form my sis!!!! were going on hoil together and worried it's going to be weird! what can i do so thinks are back to normal!!!!
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Hi, to be totally honest, there is'nt an awful lot you can do apart from telling him that you do like him and your sister E-mailed him not you. If he can't accept that, then it's proving to you that he has no respect for your honesty.
See how it goes for now. If in the next 3 months you keep telling him and he does'nt believe you then really he is'nt worth bothering with. He has a lack of respect for your honesty. Not a good way to think, when in a relationship, when really its one of the top 10 things you and your
guyfriend need for it to work out. Daniel.
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I know this won't be what you want to hear but the truth is there is very little you should do. More to the point, why should you try to do more? I understand that he thinks something about you that isn't true but you've done everything you can by trying to explain the situation to him. If you keep on about it, it might make the situation worse so the best thing to do now would be to back off completely.
At the end of the day, if he wants to believe you, he will and if he doesn't then he won't and there is really nothing you or anyone else can say to change that. As you go through life, people say things about you a LOT when they aren't true and you just have to try to rise above it. I know that it sounds like a load of rubbish to say that but the truth of the matter is you have NOTHING to explain because you didn't do anything wrong. Anyone who knows you will believe you and anyone who is willing to believe something that you have denied is true to such an extent is really not worth knowing anyway.
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maybe have your sister talk to him (if shes willing too) tell her that your in risk of loosing a friend because of a stupid prank she pulled, and if you did that to her - she wouldnt be happy either. besides that, you just ahve to be yourslef and pretend like nothing is wrong between you two. just act liek you used to before this all happened. i dont know what you mean by "we are going on hoil together" so i cant help you out with that - sorry. so good luck with everything, and just remember to be yourself. and if you need more help then your welcome to leave one in my inbox. good luckk
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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unfortuatly hun, things wont get bac to normal for awhile cause he feels weird and u cant do anything about it if you've already tried. just try to act normal and maybe ease off him for alittle bit so that way he doesnt feel pressured. and did u ever think that maybe the reason he is acting all weird now is b/c he likes u?
hope i helped :)
----caitlin
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I suggest that you write to your guyfriend explaining what happened. If he won't accept that then there is not a lot you can do about it. You could also try and get your sister to explain that it was she who sent the email to the guyfriend and not you. If this is not resolved then tell him he would be ruining a good holiday and also your friendship if he doesn't believe you. I wish you all the best.
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