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Hey iam sorry if this is under the wrong topic,but I wasn't sure.Iam 17 years old and my mom told me to break up with my boyfriend daniel so I was going to,but I never did I told her I did instead and the other day I snuck over to his house I told my mom I was going for a walk,but I didn't know she was going to follow me in the car I didn't know she was there and when she found out I went to my boyfriend's house she dosn't trust me anymore she dosn't let me use the phone the only time I can go anywhere is family no friends just family and I have to use the computer at family's house becouse she dosn't want me to be emailing my boyfriend or have any contact with him in any kind of way becouse he was arrested in he was 17 and becouse she says since he is 19 and iam only 17 he is way to old for me and now I don't have her trust how can I get her trust back my mom and I use to be so close and now we are practically strangers?
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first off your almost an adult! you should be able to date who ever you want to date. (idk if had extra info about him being a criminal but i am using what i found) i think your mother should respect that fact that you are an adult and that you are old enough to go out with who ever you want anad make the right decidion. yea your mom is protecting you but the only way you learn is not from success but from your mistakes. i would talk to her about it and tell her your point of view on this and listen to her point of view adn try to work it out. what ever happened to age is only a number.
♥ Stephanie
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I know you are feeling badly about this and you probably miss your boyfriend. But you should know your mom is protectig you. Sure, having been arrested before doesnt necessarily make you a horrible person but depending on the circumstances of his arrest, that could definitely worry any good parent-and rightly so.
You should tell your mom you understand why she did what she did and apologize for lying. Say you wont see him, and then DONT. Go out with someone your own age (and without a record), and have a good time. Once youre 18 or 19 maybe you could get back in touch with your BF.
But by that time, I'll bet you wont even want to.
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Hey, first off, I wanted to say that you shouldn't be mad at your mom, because you disobeyed her, and your bf was a criminal, and she's just watching out for you. You can try talking to her and telling her 'hey mom, I'm sorry about what happened. I had no right to disobey you, I really hope that you can forgive me'. But you should probably stay away from him for now.
Good luck.
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