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boyfriend cheater
my boyfriend asked me if i wanted sex i said 13 was way to young to have sex and i wasn't ready! he said that that was ok and he could wait! but my friend said when she got drunk at a party the had sex! shes's apoliged and i've forgiven her! but i asked max ( my boyfriend) if he had cheated on me and he said NO WHO WOULD GIVE U THAT IDEA!! i'm really heard and wanna explain i no and dump him but i want to to it in a way which will heard him like he heard me! i no thats sounds meen but my best mate! how could he!! what should i do? be crule? our just leave?
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everything everyone under me said what i was true but you know what they say WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND. what i would do is find a guy ASAP. and dotn break up with him just yet but kiss or even make out witht hat guy right infront of him. then go up to him and be like its over.
♥ Steph
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sorry sweet but if he cheated on you then he doesnt love you, which means you cant hurt him, he wont feel hurt or upset if you dump him if he doesnt care about you.
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If you try to hurt him, you'll only end up hurting yourself. It'll make you feel really guilty, and you don't want to live with that. Just be honest. Say that he hurt you, and that you don't want to see him anymore. Honesty is always best in this situation. If he's hurt, then he's hurt, but tough luck. You were just being honest, after all. Remember--two wrongs don't make a right. Don't go out of your way to hurt him, because it WILL come back to you.
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I know you don't have a lot of experience with this topic but what they did was truely terrible. I know it's hard to cut ties, but that has been proven time and time again as the best thing to do in order to keep your self respect in this situation. I simpley wouldn't speak to either one of them again. Your friend is perhaps even more to blame here, she should have put you first. If you can keep from reacting violently (I doubt I could) them move on and leave them as part of your past.
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I'm srrri about that.
If he loves u...breaking up with him by jus telling him "you're moving on" will hurt him alot
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This is an awful thing for you and I know how much you want to hurt your "boyfriend". The best way of dealing with this is with dignity. Tell him you no longer consider he is worthy of your affection and trust. Tell him he is dumped and walk away with your head held high. He doesn't deserve you and you were absolutely right to say that 13 is way too young for sex. Not only is it illegal but you could end up seriously damaging your health and your chances of a family in the future due to disease. Having sex so young when your body isn't ready for it can hurt you both physically and emotionally and there is a good chance you would seriously regret it when you are older. As for your best friend, if she really did go with your boyfriend is she really a best friend at all? True friends would never do that to you. Even though she has apologised are you sure that she wouldn't do it again in the future? Boys can be incredibly cruel and this won't be the first time you get your heart broken. Learn from this and always trust your instincts, they will never let you down. Wait until you are of a suitable age and with someone you can totally trust before you develop a deeper relationship. I wish you all the very best in the future and make sure you look after yourself.
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