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Member Since: June 9, 2006
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Last Update: June 9, 2006
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Hey iam sorry if this is under the wrong topic,but I wasn't sure.Iam 17 years old and my mom told me to break up with my boyfriend daniel so I was going to,but I never did I told her I did instead and the other day I snuck over to his house I told my mom I was going for a walk,but I didn't know she was going to follow me in the car I didn't know she was there and when she found out I went to my boyfriend's house she dosn't trust me anymore she dosn't let me use the phone the only time I can go anywhere is family no friends just family and I have to use the computer at family's house becouse she dosn't want me to be emailing my boyfriend or have any contact with him in any kind of way becouse he was arrested in he was 17 and becouse she says since he is 19 and iam only 17 he is way to old for me and now I don't have her trust how can I get her trust back my mom and I use to be so close and now we are practically strangers? (link)
I know you are feeling badly about this and you probably miss your boyfriend. But you should know your mom is protectig you. Sure, having been arrested before doesnt necessarily make you a horrible person but depending on the circumstances of his arrest, that could definitely worry any good parent-and rightly so.
You should tell your mom you understand why she did what she did and apologize for lying. Say you wont see him, and then DONT. Go out with someone your own age (and without a record), and have a good time. Once youre 18 or 19 maybe you could get back in touch with your BF.
But by that time, I'll bet you wont even want to.




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