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i REALLY NEED ALLOT OF HELP!!!!! PLEASE
i have a boy friend who is really sweet and writes me really nice notes ad stuff like that. but i dont think he is for me when ever i am around him i love to laugh but i cant get close and i deel so uncomfortable when it gets to a point where its quite like we are going to kiss i ack out really quick. everytime i am around him i am so uncomfortable.see people would say just give it time but the thing is we have been dateing for like 6 months and we have gotten nowhere. when we are on a date i just want to go home because i am that uncomefortable i dont know if it right soo i need help? and also im afraid to break up with him becasue he likes me so much like allot and he said how he would take a bullet for me adn all this stuff im scared he will get al depressed or like kill himself serioulsly so i need help. so i have two question should this relashoship go on? and i dont know hwo t break up with him if i do?
thanxs hope you can help i will rate fives if you give good advice
thanxs
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As they have already said, break up with him. It may be hard and you may be scared about what he will do. However, you will break up eventaully (I'm assuming you are about my age), and the longer you hang on, the harder it will be for both of you. You will keep thinking that can you make it work if it worked this time, probably. He will have become even more attached to you and might actually do something. If you are uncomfortable, get out now!
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You should break up..This is the best thing to do.Think about it...You don't really like him and you should not be with him.This is not only "bad" for you but for him too...Tell him that you want to stay alone...
I think that you know him better so try to explain him...The "right" thing is to tell him the truth but if i were you i wouldn't.I would tell him that i am not so good at school anymore and i should try harder but by being together i can't.I would tell him that my parents think that i should be alone this period because of school or because they are old-fashioned.I would tell sth that he would believe...Tell him sth that he can understand.Something that will make you 2 be friends...
I hope i helped...
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well i had the same problem, he just wasn't for me.
what you need to do is break up w/ him. and he most likly won't kill himself cause most guys who say that don't. you should really just follow your heart and you should break up w/ him in person, but if you are too scared to do it that way then you should do it over the phone. all you really need to say is ",i just dont think this is really working out for me. i'm just not confortable on a date w/ you."
and thats it, you'll be SINGLE and happier.
-----caitlin-----
hope i helped and good luck =)
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You should break up with him if that's what you want. It's obviously not working and you shouldn't have to stay with him if you're unhappy. Believe me, he'll get over it eventually... don't feel like you should stay with him just to make him happy. Tell him it's not working and you'd rather just be friends.
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