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my bf....
my bf wants me to lap dance with him. well. not really but he asked me if I'd do. and he asks me alot of nasty questions about sex and strip with him. i dont want to do anything with him except makeout. what do i do?? help!!
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well, i think that you should just tell him how you feel, your totally not ready for that, and you'd just prefer and feel comfortable kissing and stuff. not anything too far. and really, if he cant accept that in you, and thats all he [oviously] cares about if he gets mad or dumps you. and if he does end up breaking up with you, he wasnt worth it. a guy should neverrrr ever make you do something you're not comfortable doing. there are other guys, and even though this guy could be special, if he gets mad over you not doing more than making out, he seriously is not worth it. so dont worry about it at all !!
hope i helped, feel free to ask anything else, anytime.
-Mel.
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it kinda sounds like that's all he wants from you.. you know =/ ugh. i hate when boys are like that.. my boyfriend said to me "make out with a girl in front of me" and "only if you dress like a hooker" i just laughed and told him it was against my religion... so you shoudl just try to let it roll off your shoulders and stick up for yourself.. and tell him your not ready to go any further.. and that your happy where the relationship is at right now.. =]
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If your uncomfortable, then why stay.
He sounds like a dirtbag to me. If he wants that and is making you uncomfortable with alot of nasty questions about sex and whatnot, then why stay with him?
I bet you could find a better guy. But if you must insist with staying with this...guy...Then make it perfectly clear you are uncomfortable with him asking you those kinds of questions and don't want to do anything beyond making out.
And if he insists on his way, then drop him like a bad habit. Because if he is gonna keep going at you with that kinda stuff, then he doesn't deserve your time and has made it obvious what the priority is in your relationship.
I hope I helped, and I would hope you can make a good decision on what to do.
-Ryan
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you need to tell him that you dont want to do anything that big.. if he relly loves you then he wont pressure you to do anything that you do not want to .. to just tell him how you feel ..
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You have to make it absolutely clear that you aren't ready for anything beyond making out. If he really likes you, he'll understand. If he doesn't, then he's clearly only after one thing, and that thing is something you don't want to give him. If that's the case, you're better off not with him.
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If your boyfriend is pressuring you to do things, he's not a very good boyfriend. Tell him that you're not ready to do that kind of stuff and MAYBE later, and if he doesn't understand then he's not Mr. Right.
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he doesnt seem like a good boyfriend since he keeps on pressuring you to do things you dont want to do.. you should dump him..
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If he is trying to push you into to sexual things that you obviosly aren't ready for then it he's not the right guy for you.
DO NOT do anything that you don't want to do, you don't have to do anything you are not ready for.
Tell him how you feel, tell him that you really like him (if you do) but you don't want to do the things he's wanting.
If he gets mad or tries to make you do these things again then dump him.
if he wont respect your wishes then he's really not worth it and only using you.
love chakra x
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Tell him that you're uncomfortable with what he's asking and you aren't ready for it. If he's worth keeping he'll understand and stop. If he doesn't stop he's sleezy and probably only wants one thing - dump him.
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Well, if your boyfriend is trying to pressure you into doing these things, then are you sure you want to date him?
If it were me, I'd say
"Please stop pressuring me to do these things. If you cannot/will not stop, then we will have to break up"
you have to take a stand for yourself. You can't be pushed around like all the other teenagers that were pressured into sex, and the like.
^^; good luck.
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Tell him how you feel. He shouldnt pressure you to do anything your not ready for.
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