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prom date
prom is on may 13th - i know less then 2 weeks! i still don't have a date & i really want to have one! i am not great friends with many guys, so i don't really even have much of a choice on who i can ask. i have one friend (we don't like hang out or anything, but we talk in school) who i considered asking but then i realized (& a friend agreed with me) that he most likely doesn't want to go to the prom at all. she used to joke with him (before she knew i wanted to go with him) about prom 7 he would always say he wasn't going & he doesn't want to go. however, he's basically the only one i can even really think of as a possibility, so should i ask him anyways? i also don't know when to get him alone to ask him if i do (i don't want to do it infront of people, but i want to do it in person). what should i say to make him see i want to go with him. also i don't think he's likes to dance, so would it be stupid to ask him? i want to dance, but he probably would say no to going & to dancing. what would you do?!?!!? (i don't know him really well, just as sort of an in-school friend)
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You should just ask him anyway. When you see him in the hallway tell him you want to talk to him later. Then ask him if he wants to go with you. Let him know that you really want him to go and that it would be a lot of fun. And if he mentions now dancing tell him he doesnt have to if he doesnt want to... you can always convince him once you get there.
Im sure he will say yes. He probably only didnt want to go because he didnt have anyone to go with.
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hey!! i wanna go to prom again!! :( lol ok aanyway, i think you should ask him! and i think you should do it right away... like tomorrow! he will need to have some time to get things ready and get a tux and all that stuff! i mean ok, you have nothing to lose... if he says yes, then you got a date, and if he says no, then you will still have a lot of fun just going with friends! do you have any classes with him? or do you see him around school in the hallway? just look for him during school and pull him aside for a minute... say something like "hey come here for a second i have something to tell you" and then tell him! no pressure or anything, it doesn't have to be anything formal... just say "hey so i was wondering if you would wanna go to prom with me, i think we would have a lot of fun" or something like that! if he is hesitant and says something like "i dont know how i feel about dances i dont like dancing much" tell him it's not all about that and that he will have fun! it's something that people remember forever, so why should he miss out on it?
even if he doesn't like to dance, don't worry about it! you don't have to stay glued to him the whole time at the dance anyway! im sure you will be able to get him to dance and loosen up, because once he sees everyone else having fun and doing that he is likely to do it too! but even if he doesn't, you can still dance with your friends and stuff! it will be fun! :) so go ahead and ask him, and deffinitely go even if he says no! prom was soo awesome! have fun!
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well i personally am a guy and i know guys who can be just a shy as a girl can so i think it would be great to try it if he says no then guess what maybe all you might want to try or he wants to do is be a great friend and then maybe you could ask him to go as a friend and if he still says no dnt stop searching there's plenty fish in the sea go for it u may never kno the answer if u dnt try it 50% and higher of people in my opinion hu dnt ask the important questions will never kno if its what they were hoping for it to be.
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well... maybe he isnt going to the prom cause he has no one to go with.
go ask him the worst that can happen is that he says no.
if it makes it easier, write him a note or have a friend w/ you when you ask him.
----caitlin----
hope i helped :)
keep me informed!!
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If you know the guy doesn't like to go to dances and doesn't like to dance in the first place, you're probably wasting your time asking him. If he does say yes, he probably won't dance at all. Honestly, I think you would have a better time at prom if you went with a big group of friends, rather than with a single date. It should be about having fun and getting to spend one evening with your high school friends rather than stressing over having a date. Just go to the dance and enjoy yourself.
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I know everyone wants to go to the prom with someone...i'm not there yet but i have a cousin who i'm pretty close with. What i would do is just start a convo w/ him and kind of go into the prom thing like "the proms commin up...u going with anyone?" and if he says "i'm not going" say something like "oh. ok i was just wondering if you would go with me" and u never know that could change his mind!
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