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Ok i've been stuck on this one thing scense september i like this guy and i've only talked to him twice sence september and friday is the last day i get to see him and i really am trying to work up the courage to talk to him and it sounds easy in my head but it really isn't personaly so if you could tell me what to do that would really be great!
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ok... 1st you have 2 get his screen name but ask him for it not one of his friends wen you get his screen name say you just got a new screen name and u want to get peoples screen names then talk to him online cause its always easier to talk online but when you talk to him keep it casuel then go into do you have any siblings things will escalde from there good luck send me a email throe this website for more boy problems im good at them
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Personally i am a guy if you are not sure what to say or not sure that he likes you like that so i know that guys tend to play a lot of hard to get and also like to keep some secrets to make girls wounder not to mention if you don't or you aren't sure if he likes you think of this...:
1) You maybe a little shy but what about him do you thin that he is maybe a little shy
2) try the best you can to be and act yourself if you can't ask him what he like to do and just respond with what you like to do be truthful because it would be boring to be in a realtionship when you have everything in common. don't you think? so try to tell the truth and be yourself not to forget don't say everything you have in common because then the realtionship would probally get borin.
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hey! ok you have to "work up the courage to talk to him" because you are scared that you will say something stupid and make a fool out of yourself! you're scared that he won't like you, and you're afraid of rejection! but why do all these things matter if the last time you see him is on friday? think of the worst thing that could happen that would embarass you more than anything in front of him! even if it happens, so what? you're not going to see him again (at least not for a while if you are off for the summer from school), so you have nothing to worry about!
of course you won't say anything stupid and i'm sure he will love you, but i'm just saying don't be afraid, because even if something bad does happen it doesn't matter! even the worst case scenario isn't bad in your case... you're lucky! so just tell yourself that this is your last chance, remind yourself that you have nothing to lose, and when you see him, DON'T run through the conversation in your head and don't even think about what you are going to say! the minute you see him just walk up to him without thinking about it and say hi! ask him about his summer plans... anything! just start with small talk and the conversation should go from there! just do it, don't think about it and psych yourself out!! it's a win win situation, you have nothing to lose! :) good luck!
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Ok well first just like take a deep breath and tell yourself you can talk to him. I liked this guy and his locker was right by mine! Lucky me lol but i mean i would just say random things like what book do we need for 5th period? stuff like that and after a while i actually told a friend that i liked him and she asked him out and he said YES! but eventually we found out that we didn't have that much in common but first i would just like talk to him and see how he acts to certain questions. keep them within school functions and i'm still friends with my ex but i have his cell number an we still talk so you never kno you could be good friends or "friends with benefits" lol but just one thing to remember;:
BE URSELF!
hope it all goes well!!!
-steph
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