Member Since: May 3, 2006
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Last Update: May 8, 2006
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ok..ehm..hehe, err..gahh! Fine! I'll say it - I guess...I have a crush. ugh, I know, I know..how pathetic is this? I'm 17 years old, and I have a crush, and I come to a website to ask about it.
But here's the deal, it's the typicall high school thing, Ms. Nobody is in love with Mr. Popular. You know, hottie, funny, always the loud one, wanted by all chicks and worshiped by all dudes. That's the guy I fell for! We've never spoken. Ever. And we have no common friends, so I have no reason to talk to him /get to know him..but that's the thing. I want to get to know him! But I can't just go up to him and start talking, that's crazy! Plus he wants the confident chicks, and my body language pretty much SCREAMS "insecure" so I guess, how do I get ri of that? And how can I strike up a conversation? (link)
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ok this is an easy one one day just do your hair really nice put extra make up on and walk up to him and ask him if you can borrow his notes (i no they the cheesey borrowing notes but w/e works)even if you dont have the same class as him tell him you think that you have the same teacher. anyway when you walk up to him you have to act confident even if you dont feel confident just pretend the nex day do your hair good again and put a lot of make up on and go up to him and say thanks and strike up a conversation say i dont see you around much hell say i dont see you that much either then say so how old are you the conversation will escalade from there if it doesnt you can forget about him cause if you dont have anything to talk about it wasnt ment to be good luck if you have anymore questions just ask i want to no how its gonna turn out
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okay, My name is JJ 13/f. There are two boys I really like one I've gone out with and he broke up with me, because he felt like it. Or so he says. His friends and him are always mean to me but, when he's alone with me he is always nice. His sister is my best friend. The other boy is ALWAYS nice, his friends are nice also, but his friends and I have grown up together, there are only 11 kids in my class.He's found stuf out about me that Only the kids that where in K learned or they are my BFFs. He always looks and makes sure I look when he is doing something funny, and looks pleased when I smile at it and jealous if I mention Mr. Ex when he's around. Which one do you think I sould chose? (link)
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i wood def. go with the one whose nice to you he seems really sweet and if u went for the guy who was mean when hes with his friends he might be talkin bad bout u when your not there good luck
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oaky well me and my bff just got into a huge fight. she asked my one friend if he was Catholic and he said *no im Christian* and she got really upset and called him an effing prejudice. i asked her why and everything escalated and now we arent talking. we got into this big fight about stereotyping and religion. i guess i blew the fight a little bit out of proportion but so did she. now i dont know what to do, i want to keep on tlaking to her but i think its gonna be awkward and we said some mean things, ahh what should i do?
im not going to apologize first bc i didnt really start it.
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ok im going throw the same thing now except we have been fighting for about a year now we were best friends and i hate when people say talk it out cause its easier said then done but you dont want it to drag on cause it just makes it harder TRUST ME so i think you should tell her "neither one of us has to apolagize lets just stop its stupid" i no it might be hard but i cant even do that anymore cause i waited so long but i def wish i did if u have anymore questions ask hope i helped
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Ok so I've known this girl since like second grade and I feel like she wants to ditch me and hang out with a new group of friends. What should I do? I have other friends, but it seems like if she had the choice to pick them or me, shed pick them. I've tried to talk to her about it but all she says is that I ma her best friend and that they are her friends, sometimes I don't believe it, even though i want to. Please help because this situation has been happening for over two years now and I've just about had it! Will rate 5's if you help! (link)
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i had the same thing happen to me except i didnt no the person that long and i was the person who wanted to "ditch" the other person and i no that sounds mean but i really dont mean it that way i dodnt want to ditch her cause she wasnt still nice but because we just grew apart that we both new the friendship was over so dont be mad at her maybe you should just find a new group of friends but still stay in touch with her after all you dont wanna ruin what you had if you have more questions just ask i hope i helped
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My friend (she can be A) is dealing with a very difficult person. It is beyond my advice so I'm looking to others for some. Well, her friend (let's say K) has done the meanest things I have ever heard to A. They sit at a cool lunch table but they started ganging up on her. For example, today they (even they admitted online that they) were watching her at lunch to find things wrong about her. Also, K curses at her online. K is like Satan. I sware, she is the most coldhearted girl in America. Anyway, my friend tried to talk to her but that's just not in the cards for K. Sometimes they exclude her and say that she wants to be the center of attention all the time. I was just shocked when I heard this. And another thing; K talks stuff about this other girl too. Not only was this girl my best friend for almost all of my life, but she is my neighbor too. I don't know how to help my friends! They come to me for answers but this time, I'm clueless. What can I do? (link)
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ok i deffinitly think k shouldnt be your friend at all if shes that mean i dont no about you but i deff. woudnt want a friend like that i would just say to k that you think a is right and even if she gets mad at you we all no that your right and you woud be helping a alot beacause she prob doesnt have that many REAL friends right now i hope that helped
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Ok heres the low down this guy that i went out with for like a week went to this one dance without me (I couldnt make it) and then he called me on his cell and asked if he could dance wit someone cause i wasnt there and i said yeah cause I thought he ment one of my friends *we are all good friends* BUT he ment his ex and she was all over him and yeah i was angry
but over the weekend he kept asking if i had broke up and i never did but he called it off and he's been going out with his ex ever since *like 2 months ago
Now she told me they have broke up and im happy cause i wanted to get back together wit him but i was just starting to get over him and i dont know if he likes me any more even though my friends say he does and i dont want his ex to be mad at me cause shes a friend of mine What should I do?
should i forget about it or go for him ???? plz help i rate (link)
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i would def. forget bout him he forgot about you once and what if he does the same thing again guys are always gonna be like that they dont think with there heads if ou no what i mean good luck
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There is this boy at my school. Last week, I did not know him at all. My friend knew him and showed me his myspace. I sent him a message asking if he knew my friend and he said yes and we began talking. We had never talked in person. I told him I would say hi to him sometime at school. I think he was beginning to figure out I had a crush on him. Today he was standing in the lunch line behind me and I thought it was the perfect chance. So I said hi and we talked shortly. Then I said "see you later" and that was it. I don't know what to do. I get shy when it comes to talking to him at school. I feel like I am being annoying over myspace though. Everyone tells me he is down to earth, nice, and funny. I just don't know how to get closer to him. I really want things to work. We can never have any classes together because he is a grade younger. He is so my type and I really want to tell him how I feel, but that would be too fast since we barely know each other.
Any takers?
It's a toughie, but PLEASE help. (link)
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ok im not gonna be like veryone else and say tell him how you feel because we all no thats hard i think you should get his screen name and take it slower start asking him if he has siblings or a girlfriend even if you already no the answers then start talking to him in school more and more just in school when you talk to him think of him as one of your guy friends that you can talk to good luck
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i'm female, 17, and a junior in high school. last march, a guy, (who is 21 and doesn't go 2 school), i wrk w/finally broke up w/his girlfriend of 2 years. he told me in january he really liked me and there'd been a mutual attraction since then. the problem is, that, although they broke up, they still live together in a 1 room apartment (he sleeps on the couch) b/c he cannot financially afford to live on his own and he currently drives his ex's car. she has reciently threatened 2 move out which would force him 2 move back to WA. she's agreed to stay but insists that i don't see him 4 a while. i didn't know her previously and there is pretty much no chance of her feeling anything but hostility towards me. i don't want to break up w/him but i dont like the idea of his ex controlling our relationship and i know there's nothing i can say to her that will change her mind. what do i do? (link)
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first if you dont trust him its over rught there but if you want to stay with him i would tell him how you feel and i would talk 2 her to but with no yelling just tell him how you feel and i would tell your boyfriend to tell her that she cant controll you guys if he really likes you hell do it for you
hope i helped
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Ok i've been stuck on this one thing scense september i like this guy and i've only talked to him twice sence september and friday is the last day i get to see him and i really am trying to work up the courage to talk to him and it sounds easy in my head but it really isn't personaly so if you could tell me what to do that would really be great! (link)
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ok... 1st you have 2 get his screen name but ask him for it not one of his friends wen you get his screen name say you just got a new screen name and u want to get peoples screen names then talk to him online cause its always easier to talk online but when you talk to him keep it casuel then go into do you have any siblings things will escalde from there good luck send me a email throe this website for more boy problems im good at them
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I am so in love with one of my friends. I can't stop thinking about him. He is a good friend and shares his problems with me. He always cracks jokes and we always have friendly arguments. How can I let him know that I actually fancy him? I want him to see me as a girl and not just a mate. I'll never flirt with him. How do I tell him that I want to be more than friends?
i dont want him to see me just as a buddy......plz help..........
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ommg that has happened 2 me before i think its easier just 2 stay friends unless you really like him cause if you guys r that close it might be 2 acword as bf ang gf if you really want him 2 no tell 1 of his friends 2 see if he likes you
good luck
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Ok so there is this guy at my school and I really like him, his name is Andrew. I dont know if he likes me but i really want him to know. How am I supposed to know if he likes me back when he figures it out? My friends were gonna talk to him but they never got a chanc. They were supposed to do it while i was flying out of town for a funeral but he was sick. I (link)
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you should deffinitly try to get his attention with out being to crazy just get your hair ready nice get a new outfit and start talking to him online if he starts talking to you then he likes you and about your enemy just tell her a guy likes her and then her intrest will be off andrew
good luck
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My mom won't let me talk to boys on the phone. Whenever my cellphone rings, shes like "Who is it??!?!?" When I actually tell her she rolls her eyes and then asks my 20 questions about the person I'm talking to.
I know like trying to "protect" me, but I have to pretty much "hide" in my room when I talk on the phone.
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my mom is the exact same way she never stops and then shell come in my room and talk about it so i always have my phone on vibrate so then i can fell it and look with out her seeing then go in my room and when your in your romm just say your talking 2 one of your girlfriends
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