okay, My name is JJ 13/f. There are two boys I really like one I've gone out with and he broke up with me, because he felt like it. Or so he says. His friends and him are always mean to me but, when he's alone with me he is always nice. His sister is my best friend. The other boy is ALWAYS nice, his friends are nice also, but his friends and I have grown up together, there are only 11 kids in my class.He's found stuf out about me that Only the kids that where in K learned or they are my BFFs. He always looks and makes sure I look when he is doing something funny, and looks pleased when I smile at it and jealous if I mention Mr. Ex when he's around. Which one do you think I sould chose?
goodygirl023arn answered Monday May 8 2006, 2:29 pm: well that seems obvious to me if your ex is going to diss you in front of his friends then he is defiantely not worth your time. If the other nice guy knows things about you but still hangs around with you and trys to impress you then obviously he accepts them and is ok with it. He seems like a great person you should try it with him. [ goodygirl023arn's advice column | Ask goodygirl023arn A Question ]
streetcarp answered Monday May 8 2006, 9:27 am: The way you've worded it makes it sound to me as though you already know which is the right choice, and you know which one you want!
helpmebrenda answered Monday May 8 2006, 9:21 am: Hi
The answer my dear, is painfully obvious.
It doesn't matter how nice he is to you when you're alone with him....the fact that he is mean to you AT ALL gives off a red flag.
Why would you even consider being with someone who doesn't treat you nicely?
Life is far too short to be unhappy in a relationship....especially since you already know what it would be like.
The other guy sounds great. You can tell he's interested due to the actions you explained.
You would be MUCH happier with someone like that. Always remember...you deserve to be treated with respect, and loyalty. You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you at all times.
Someone who claims to like/love you would NEVER intentionally hurt you physically or emotionally.
You sound like a smart girl, and I think you already know what to do.
soendearing answered Monday May 8 2006, 8:34 am: The obvious choise is the other boy. You and your ex shouldn't go back out, especially because he's mean to you. It's not acceptable. So i would deffinetly choose the other boy you like. :] [ soendearing's advice column | Ask soendearing A Question ]
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