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ok im happy but kinda not happy
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Ok heres the low down this guy that i went out with for like a week went to this one dance without me (I couldnt make it) and then he called me on his cell and asked if he could dance wit someone cause i wasnt there and i said yeah cause I thought he ment one of my friends *we are all good friends* BUT he ment his ex and she was all over him and yeah i was angry
but over the weekend he kept asking if i had broke up and i never did but he called it off and he's been going out with his ex ever since *like 2 months ago
Now she told me they have broke up and im happy cause i wanted to get back together wit him but i was just starting to get over him and i dont know if he likes me any more even though my friends say he does and i dont want his ex to be mad at me cause shes a friend of mine What should I do?
should i forget about it or go for him ???? plz help i rate
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Personally? I think you need to forget about him. If we're looking at facts here, he danced with his ex, who quite clearly he had feelings for and it seems to me that he waited to get with her on an occasion where you couldn't be there to see it and he could get away with it. After this, you are quite rightly upset about it and HE breaks up with YOU?
Frankly, this guy didn't seem to have much respect for you the first time round and I doubt very much that he would the second time either. After all, what is to stop him taking advantage of another opportunity like that?
Sometimes, however hard it is, it is best to leave the past in the past and try to move on. In your case, I think you will be a lot better off without him but I can tell you quite easily that you deserve better than him and you won't find a better person if you are with him.
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i would def. forget bout him he forgot about you once and what if he does the same thing again guys are always gonna be like that they dont think with there heads if ou no what i mean good luck
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I think you should forget about him. He was quite dishonest with you in my opinion.
He should have known better than to dance with his ex-girlfriend who would be all over him. It's not something you even have to think about, it's common sense.
Not only did he dance with her, but he broke it off with you because you were angry and confused and went out with his ex. He didn't give you time and apologize like a proper boyfriend should have. Now, you have mentioned that you've just started to get over him, and I think it needs to stay that way because doesn't that say a lot about a guy when he lets some girl all over him and then dates her? He treated you wrong and I think that he could have had a chance if he would have tried to stay with you while you were feeling upset about this ex-girlfriend.
-TheTeenGirl
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I personally think you should go for him. His ex (your friend) was all over him and stole him from you so she broke girl code. You taking him back after they broke up wouldn't be as bad as what she did. If you feel super guilty about doing it you could ask for her permission if you are really good friends. If your not that good off friends but still feel guilty, wait some time before going after him again. If your not guilty at all and just want to know if its wrong, I would say what she did was wrong.
I hope things work out with him.
Those situations suck.
Marta
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First of all, that stuff sucks. But if his ex is one of your friends, then why was she all over him in the first place? She has no right to be mad at you when she was all over him when you guys were going out. But aside from that, if you really like him, then you should go for him, but I'd be careful about getting too involved too fast. Cause you never know...he might be a huge flirt, and that could have been the reason for her being all over him.
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