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Hey. I'm Marta. I give advice on questions I feel I can actually be helpful too. I don't like to just randomly pick questions and than give random advice. I actually look for a question that I can actually benfit the person. haha. yeah so i love having fun and playing basketball.
Member Since: May 4, 2006
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Last Update: August 26, 2006
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Is getting your tonsils removed painful when you wake up? A walk through of the procedure would be very helpful. Thanks, all answers are rewarded = ] (link)
I was really young when I got mine out
so i'll try and help as much as possible.
So they put you to sleep with a mask
and you wake up in a room. your throat
will hurt really bad when you talk and
stuff.
when i got home i threw up once
and i ate popsicles and ice cream for
like ever. (i even said i still hurt
after it didn't so i could keep eating
them whenever i wanted lol)
but basically its going to hurt for a
while. you can't really walk through
the procedure beacuse we were all asleep.
But you go on the stretcher they put you
to sleep, and than you wake up in a room.
hope i helped.


i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
Well If you really want to go, this is what I did.
I wore a one peice, with a cute pair of shorts.
If you can get swimming shorts, that'd be better.
But just do that.
I did it all the time when my friend invited me over to swim.
Everyone is self consious.
And if you really don't want to go, get one of your close friends to go to the movies.
Or just rent movies get a ton of blankets and just spend the night watching movies.
I really hope it works out for you.
These things are tough.


Um so this is weird but my nipples are like crooked. one goes down and the other is like striaght. is something wrong with me?? im really sorry this is weird.

im 15/f if that helps (link)
it might not be your nipples.
your boobs could be a different size which would cause one to point down and the other straight.
don't worry, lots of girls have this.
so don't be worried.
i really hope I helped.


16/f i have been going out with this guy for a month now. but im starting not to like him very much any more and i like other guys too. but yesterday we went to a dance and he said i mean so much to him. i think i should break up with him but im afraid i will hurt him so much. what should i do? (link)
If you stay with him just because he said that your only hurting him. If you stay with him longer he'll just care more. Break up with him when its less painful. Its the right thing to do. Plus, if you don't want to be in a relationship anymore, get out. THere is no point in staying if you are no longer happy. It will just make the other person miserable if you stay and don't want too.
I hope I helped.
Marta


i have this picture i like of me. and i want to put it on my site. but it says the file size is too big. and that it cant go over 15K. if i make it any more smaller - your not gonna be able to see it. is there a way to change the size [ k ] without making my picture smaller? or if its just a little smaller - it should be fine too. pleasehelppp. (link)
another easy way is to go to my pictures
and pick the picture you want, right click it and in the menu it will say "resize pic" for myspace i usually do small. because its perfect, but you can also custom size it.


I'm going to buy a sweatshirt at Abercrombie for Kids for my cousin for her b-day. What is a small in Abercrombie kids, like what size does that match up to? Would that be an XS in the regular Abercrombie and Fitch? And the cousin I'm getting it for is 12 and around 100 pounds and a size 3 in jeans. Would she be able to fit into a size Small sweatshirt from Abercrombie Kids? Thanks. (link)
Uh. I'm not really a good fashion advice person....but i'll try my best. my best guess would be, if shes that small, getting a medium would be good. I always get bigger clothes because you will grow into them. Plus since shes only 12 she'll have ton of time to grow and it'll shrink a little in the wash. I would go with a medium.
I hope I helped.
Marta


my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost a year. we're both 15. recently he's told me that he likes other girls, but would never cheat. he says he only likes them based on looks and anytime he sees them, he always compares them to me in the back of his mind and they always lose. but when i found out about this, i was upset. i feel uncomfortable that he likes other girls besides for me. is that selfish? he loves me and i love him but i don't want other girls to be on his mind. it hurts...should i try to be ok with him liking other girls or should i break up with him? i mean, people can't help who they like, right? (link)
I think that it is compleltely normal for him to be thinking of other girls. What is not normal though is him comparing them to you. He shouldn't be doing that. Guys will always be attracted to more than one girl, but they will only love one at a time (normally.) I think that comparing other girls to you is like comparing two dresses, you pick the one that looks better. Right now, it seems he thinks you look better than all of them, but what happens if one day he doesn't think that? I hope that he loves you enough to realize that looks arn't everything. And it seems like he does. But comparing other girls to your girlfriend isn't right.
You might want to talk about this with him, tell him what you feel. In a relationship both people should be honest, and it seems like he is. Now its your turn.
I hope I helped.
Marta


Only answer if you have one.
I just bought an iPod nano and when I imported my music a few songs I didn't want on there got on there. How do I remove them from my iPod?
Please explain step by step; for I am quite confused. (link)
it depends if you want it on iTunes and not on the iPod. If you wanna keep it on itunes and not on the iPod al you do is click the little box on the far right of the song so there isn't a little check in the box. that will keep it from uploading onto ur iPod.
hope i helped.


i feel all weird when im around the guy i like. i always stare at him and i look forward to go to school just to see him but when im around him i cant breathe and my stomach goes all funny. the other day there was even a big misunderstanding because of this lol. could i be in love?????
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I get the exact same way. I don't think your in love, your probably just self concious and nervous. Thats at least how I feel. I look forward to going to school, but when he comes near me or I see him I get all hott, and sorta dizzy. My stomach goes all funny too.
I hope it answered your question.
Marta


F/13
Ok heres the low down this guy that i went out with for like a week went to this one dance without me (I couldnt make it) and then he called me on his cell and asked if he could dance wit someone cause i wasnt there and i said yeah cause I thought he ment one of my friends *we are all good friends* BUT he ment his ex and she was all over him and yeah i was angry
but over the weekend he kept asking if i had broke up and i never did but he called it off and he's been going out with his ex ever since *like 2 months ago

Now she told me they have broke up and im happy cause i wanted to get back together wit him but i was just starting to get over him and i dont know if he likes me any more even though my friends say he does and i dont want his ex to be mad at me cause shes a friend of mine What should I do?
should i forget about it or go for him ???? plz help i rate (link)
I personally think you should go for him. His ex (your friend) was all over him and stole him from you so she broke girl code. You taking him back after they broke up wouldn't be as bad as what she did. If you feel super guilty about doing it you could ask for her permission if you are really good friends. If your not that good off friends but still feel guilty, wait some time before going after him again. If your not guilty at all and just want to know if its wrong, I would say what she did was wrong.
I hope things work out with him.
Those situations suck.
Marta


Ok please dont anyone make fun of me! I am 16 yrs old and weig 200 lbs. i really need to loose as much weight as possible bfore school ends which in like 5 wks! please i will do ANYTHING! i rate 5's!!!!!!
~*Nikki*~ (link)
Ok.
I have some tips that you might help.
What I do is, run around your neighborhood a few times. Or if you arn't used to running, jog.
Do 50 crunches.
50 leg ups.
Than do jumping jacks (suggest on the bottom floor of your house because it annoys the heck outta my mom when I do it upstairs)
than for your arms, use like 30 pound weights and work on ur arms, lifting them.
For eating, don't eat candy, chips, or stuff that cotains a lot of sugar, fat, and grease. Not only does it not help with loosing weight, it also causes a lot of acne.
If you do this a lot everyday than you can probably lose a lot of weight before the end of school.
Good luck and i hope it works out.


would putting de-odorant on your face cut down sweating? (link)
yeah. as the people below said. it probably wouldn't, it might cause acne or a rash or something if your face is senstive like most people.




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