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feeling self consious
i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks!
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I am 5'3" and exactly 115 pounds too, so I'm sure I can help you!
I wear a size 0 in jeans, and I'm guessing since you are about the same body type as me that that's about what you wear.
Trust me.... THIS ISNT FAT!! and EVERYONE has a little bit of lower tummy fat, we are born with it it's completely normal.
Don't miss out on any of the fun all because of being self conscious. In my experience, other people are only gonna make fun of you if you arent confident in the first place. If you are confident about yourself then everyoen else is gonna look at you in a different light, trust me!
I mean, obviously these people liek you if you keep getting invited to parties with them!
And if any of those guys say anything to you about your weight like they said to your friend, just fire one right back at them.
Maybe try repyling with a "Hey how old are you? 12??" or a "Hey how many girls could you get? 0??"
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Well, I think you should go to the party and not care what anybody thinks. Or, work out! The way to lose the fat that you dont want, is to work it off. Or wear a bathing suit that covers you more. Forget about those mean guys and have fun! Dont let your little insecurities stop you from having a good time.
Let me know if it helps!
XOXO
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Hey there (= Don't worry, I'm same height/weight as you and I have my days when I feel huge. I'm still a size one in jeans, So I know I'm not fat at all, so that means you aren't either.
To make yourself look skinnier, don't eat before the party. Drink some water earlier in the morning, but be sure to pee it out, or you might look bloated. And do about 100-200 crunches right before you go, trust me, it`ll make you look skinner. Or try a more covering bathing suit like a one peice or tankini if you're too concious. Have fun! (=
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Well If you really want to go, this is what I did.
I wore a one peice, with a cute pair of shorts.
If you can get swimming shorts, that'd be better.
But just do that.
I did it all the time when my friend invited me over to swim.
Everyone is self consious.
And if you really don't want to go, get one of your close friends to go to the movies.
Or just rent movies get a ton of blankets and just spend the night watching movies.
I really hope it works out for you.
These things are tough.
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Everyone is different. You dodn't even need to worry about it, because no one probably notices as much as you. Plus, most women think that they are 30 percent fatter than they really are. So if it will make you feel better, do some crunches and have fun at the party!
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Aw, hey girl. If you're going to swim, try a tankini, which is a long top, and bikini bottoms, but it covers all your stomach, so its great. And you're not fat at all, I typed you into am-i-fat.com and it said you were a Perfect Score, Stay as you are! Don't worry if other people are thinner than you, that's just how some people are. If you're not going to swim, it's fine too. You want to go to say goodbye to your friend, anyway, & that's really the purpose of the party! Have funnn. :]
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you cood wear a one piece or a swimsuit that hides some or just say you have a sunburn and wear atshirt you cood also just have fun and if anyone makes fun of you there not reallly your friends.
hope i helped
alli<33
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be confident. dont not swim at your friends going away party, you're going to go for your friend.. you shouldnt worry about how you look because the only person who it'll truly matter most that your there.would of course be the girl
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Well if you feel self consious in a swim suit you could get some cute girls board shorts and a tank top that matches!!! that way you dont have to be in a swim suit...
www.pacsun.com this is a place that you can get really cute board shorts and tanks!
hope this helps you feel better!!!
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