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should i dump him?
16/f i have been going out with this guy for a month now. but im starting not to like him very much any more and i like other guys too. but yesterday we went to a dance and he said i mean so much to him. i think i should break up with him but im afraid i will hurt him so much. what should i do?
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If you stay with him just because he said that your only hurting him. If you stay with him longer he'll just care more. Break up with him when its less painful. Its the right thing to do. Plus, if you don't want to be in a relationship anymore, get out. THere is no point in staying if you are no longer happy. It will just make the other person miserable if you stay and don't want too.
I hope I helped.
Marta
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if thats how your feel..you have to break up with him...but think it over before you do it...you never know what you had until you lose it...remember this quote..it will help you out...HOLLA
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Well, it's obvious that you should break up with him, the only thing that's stopping you is how he will feel and that's great that you really care about his feelings, but it's not a good enough reason not to break up with someone.
Besides, you should think about this. It's a month into the relationship and he already means so much to you. I don't think so. The only way I see that being true is if you both were good friends before you dated.
As much as it hurts, he has to know that you aren't on the same page as he is. So do the hard thing and tell him it's over, there's no nice way to break-up with someone, but you can let him down gently. Just tell him that you just aren't feeling the same anymore.
-TheTeenGirl
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When you find yourself not liking someone, and are interested in other guys, it's probably time to break up with your boyfriend. I know you hate to hurt him, but it doesn't make too much sense to let things go any longer than you have to with a guy you no longer like like that.
You can just be friends. Or you can wait a week. Either way, good luck.
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