I am so in love with one of my friends. I can't stop thinking about him. He is a good friend and shares his problems with me. He always cracks jokes and we always have friendly arguments. How can I let him know that I actually fancy him? I want him to see me as a girl and not just a mate. I'll never flirt with him. How do I tell him that I want to be more than friends?
i dont want him to see me just as a buddy......plz help..........
freckles194 answered Thursday May 4 2006, 4:20 pm: this happened to my friend and he then decided she was just a gd friend n nothin more! if you like him as much as you say then dont give up however hard it is!! tell him that you like him n see were it goes it might be that hes in the same boat and likes you!! [ freckles194's advice column | Ask freckles194 A Question ]
Dear_lynda answered Thursday May 4 2006, 3:40 pm: The best way to start a relationship is with friendship, now the hard part...telling him that you want more. Why won't you flirt with him? You can find out alot by asking him questions, general-get-to-know him types. Ask him what he likes in a girlfriend, get him talking about himself, his likes and dislikes. You know what his problems are, ask him what his joys are. If you still think you two are a good fit, ask him out...to a movie, bowling, skiing, any activity you both like to do. [ Dear_lynda's advice column | Ask Dear_lynda A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Thursday May 4 2006, 2:17 pm: Alot guys when their in love with their friends dont say anything because they dont know if that person feels the same way. You may not see it but laughing together and having a great time is flirting. Thats a way of showing your affection towards a person. Also if he feels that you dont feel the same way he may not say aything b/c if you dont feel the same way your relationship is ruined. Girls have to do everything. If you have a great relationship then you shuld just talk to him about it. Maybe write him a deep email or call him. Write him a note in school or even just talk to him in person. If you dont say anything now you will regret by thinking what would have happened if i would have said something. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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