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big fight
oaky well me and my bff just got into a huge fight. she asked my one friend if he was Catholic and he said *no im Christian* and she got really upset and called him an effing prejudice. i asked her why and everything escalated and now we arent talking. we got into this big fight about stereotyping and religion. i guess i blew the fight a little bit out of proportion but so did she. now i dont know what to do, i want to keep on tlaking to her but i think its gonna be awkward and we said some mean things, ahh what should i do?
im not going to apologize first bc i didnt really start it.
thanks
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ok im going throw the same thing now except we have been fighting for about a year now we were best friends and i hate when people say talk it out cause its easier said then done but you dont want it to drag on cause it just makes it harder TRUST ME so i think you should tell her "neither one of us has to apolagize lets just stop its stupid" i no it might be hard but i cant even do that anymore cause i waited so long but i def wish i did if u have anymore questions ask hope i helped
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You shouldn't really care who started what.
You should talk to her, cause fighting over something like that isn't something what BFF's do. Does she have something against Christians? or something?
If you really care about her and the friendship you two once had. She should apologize for giving you an attitude, and maybe you should apologize for saying mean things to her.
I hope all goes well =]
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Only four year olds are allowed to care who started it.
If you feel you did something wrong, treated her unfairly, or got unreasonably angry, then apologize. Admitting you were in the wrong doesn't mean she was in the right, it just means you're a big enough person to admit you didn't behave very well.
If you don't think you did anything wrong, well then fine. You're free to ignore her until she smartens up, but it sounds like you know you both were out of line. So suck it up and apologize, I bet you'll find she'll be happy to put this silly fight behind you as well.
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If she's really your bff, you wouldn't really care who answered first! Keep your friendship and apologize even if you didn't start it.
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if she was really your best friend, you woudn't really care about who apologizes first, i mean why are you going to just throw a good friendship away?. yeah you might of not started the fight, but oh well.. think of what you want more...just think about it, is it really worth fighting over and looses your friendship over it? .. maybe you should just try and talk to her about it, and explain that you guys got different beliefs..
hope i helped
and remember don't throw your friendship away over a fight.
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Your best friend is the one with the issue. If she can't keep her mouth shut about your other friend being a Christian then why bother with her? She went out of control and had no right to bash him like that.
I don't think you or your other friend should apologize or even speak to her until she grows up a little bit and apologizes to your friend and you. Your best friend was the one who blew this out of proportion by calling him a prejudice. My advice to you is to not speak to her until she can get a little respect for her friends.
-TheTeenGirl
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I think your friend is a little too sensitive.
I, for one, consider myself Christian, not Catholic. I'm not trying to offend any Catholics out there, it's just that I'm not one. Some people don't see a difference between Catholicism and Christianity while some do. Your friend just needs to accept that and get over it.
Your friend shouldn't have to apologize to her, and neither should you. If you'd like to talk to her about what she did, though, that'd be fine.
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