Hi my name is Haley. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. When I have advice, I wanna have it! So I know how you feel. I'll try to get your advice to you ASAP. I'll try to give the best advice I can.
E-mail: comet672@hotmail.com
Location: Victoria
Age: 13
MSN: comet672@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 30, 2006
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well, he broke up with me (link)
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I can't really answer this. It's not a question.
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17f. Ok heres the deal, i'm sorta talking to this guy and we're getting really close and everything but we're not actually together. We have all the elements of a relationship just without the title. But because we dont have that title we're not technically together and i just wanted to know since we're not together would it be wrong for us to have sex. It hasn't really come up as an issue yet but i don't really wanna get myself in a predicament that i'm not sure of. (link)
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Well first ask him if he will be your boyfriend. Then maybe when you're older, DO IT. Just not now trust me.
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ok well i kinda like my ex boyfriend again. we broke up because his parents wouldnt let us date anymore until they got over some problems. well, i dont know if he likes me or not. i just dont know what to do. will you please help me? (link)
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Well, did you break up with him, or did he break up with you? If you broke up with him, and he seemed to be hurt, tell him sorry.
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13/f. I’m having a problem. There’s this guy who likes me. He hasn’t told me directly, but it’s still totally obvious. And I don’t like him back. He’s a good student, but the thing is, he’s really unattractive…..he’s got loads of zits, a humongous head, scary blue-gray eyes, and his vocal chords are all messed up. Because of this defect, he talks really quietly in this bizarre falsetto. It’s almost impossible to carry on a conversation with him. I’m a little creeped out that he likes me, and I hate myself for it. He has feelings and can’t help the way he looks and the way he talks. I feel so shallow for not being able to get beyond his physical appearance. I know this from personal experience, because boys used to be freaked out at the idea of me liking any one of them because I’m an unpopular loner, I’m clumsy, I don’t wear nice clothes, and I’m crazy about operas and musicals, and I have a really brutal sense of humor. I had resolved that I’d never judge a person just by trivial qualities, and now I’m being a hypocrite. I feel guilty whenever I have my eye on guys who have…….a normal voice.
Im having a mental conflict. What should I do?
Heeeeeeelllpppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tell him the truth. He may be hurt. But it's just life. Life isn't fair to anyone. I'm like you and ther's a guy who likes me at my school, and he's so weird. Everyone teases him so I feel guilty. I'm almost exactly in your situation. so like I said just tell him the truth.
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14/female
i like one of my guy best friends. were kind of fake flirting all the time (like you know just kidding around) and our friends are always teasing us, saying were going out, we like each other, etc.
Today my friend got pissed at me, and told him I really liked him (I know trust me she is so dead). Once he mentioned this to me, I desperetly tried to cover. Saying this is what they always do and stuff. Im not sure how sucessful this was, since it was only like an hour or so ago, but he was kind of acting weird to me on the computer. Before I found out about this, we were discussing who he likes. He said no one and he swore on one of my friend's lives. Because of this, Im pretty sure he doesnt like me. I want to know whether it is worth telling him how I feel, even if it means I might lose him, one of my best friends, in the process. Any advice on what to do would help. I give a lot of fives! (link)
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Okay, it depends on how much you like them. If you tell him how you feel, and he doesn't like you back, you said you could lose him, and your friend. But if you don't tell him, you won't lose nothing. I dream about a guy I like, but I can't tell him how I feel because he moved. I wouldn't tell him. It's not worth being embarassed if he doesn't like you AND losing your friend.
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i'm 17/f (well, almost 18), my boyfriend is turning 19. instead of buying him something that he'll never use (i don't like the tie idea, and he's got all the music and movies he could ever want), i'm going to take him to the park for a picnic tomorrow afternoon. luckily, it will probably be a very nice day!
but i'm having trouble thinking of things to bring along, mostly food-wise. any ideas?? and also, do guys like doing this at all (provided there's enough delicious food, of course... :P )?
thanks in advance! (link)
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bring whatever you gus both like. Ask him unless it's a surprise. If it is, bring what you think you guys will like.
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I just got my period. I've been trying to use a tampon. This sounds really gross but I can't find the "hole" it goes into!?! I've tried readying the directions...it doesn't help what should I do? (link)
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I don't have my period yet but when my class got THE TALK we learned that it goes diagonally. But ask your mom or dad.
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My boyfriend is the caring, sweet, humorous type; pretty much what any girl would want. But he's very, very shy. I can't seem to get him to open up when we're around people but when we're alone he opens up fine. He's not very spontaneous but isn't bothered by my personality of being very random. My guy friend had to actually talk to him about going further than just kissing to get him to do anything with me. (Usually, it's the guy taking it too far right?) I mean he can be very outgoing. Sometimes he'll just send or write random things like "Omg, she's so hot" or "She's so cool" (Talking about me)to my friends or in a message somewhere. It's hard to give him that hint to put his arm around me in public (Though he does it sometimes when we're around other people) We never hold hands but that's basically my fault since I'm very self conscious of my hands. I just want to know what I could do to open him & myself up more. (link)
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Okay, maybe I'm not so sure on how to open him up but maybe, if you start doing more stuff he'll open up.
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What type of exercises are there to make you thinner and how do you do them (link)
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Just exercize, mainly running.
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I want:
Video game desighning
Nursing at nursing homes
cooking
photography
Which is the best? (link)
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I'm not sure which is the best but you just choose what you're interested in. I think the're all good but you choose which one you like. :)
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I have been with my boyfriend for bout 9 days and he already seems serious. not in a sex way like he is already talking about the future (like kids, marriage, and life altogether) thats not bad I guess if I was older but the truth is I'm only a 15 yr old freshman and he's a 17 yr old junior. so should I be glad he's planning ahead and wants to be with me or should I worry.
please help
wanna love (link)
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well I'm not sure. I think he really likes you. That's why he's doing what he's doing. If you don't like it break up with him.
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i have some anger issues and i cant help but take it out on the guy i like and i think this is why hes not asking me out..do u have any adivce on how to control it?
ps 14/f (link)
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Well, I get bullied at school sometimes, so I know how you feel. you feel like you wanna break stuff, try screaming into a pillow of squeezing something really hard.
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oaky well me and my bff just got into a huge fight. she asked my one friend if he was Catholic and he said *no im Christian* and she got really upset and called him an effing prejudice. i asked her why and everything escalated and now we arent talking. we got into this big fight about stereotyping and religion. i guess i blew the fight a little bit out of proportion but so did she. now i dont know what to do, i want to keep on tlaking to her but i think its gonna be awkward and we said some mean things, ahh what should i do?
im not going to apologize first bc i didnt really start it.
thanks (link)
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If she's really your bff, you wouldn't really care who answered first! Keep your friendship and apologize even if you didn't start it.
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What exercises can I do to remove fat off of my love handles/sides? (link)
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I'm sorry, I really am, I can't answer this one. I am a beginner at this so I can't answer all questions.
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Ok so I'm a girl of East Indian decent and I have dark dark brown hair with red chunky streaks (they've faded to a coppery red) and these look nice on me but they -totally- clash with my prom dress which is a dusty rose pink and I'm not willing to screw that up.
My friend is also Indian and she got like blonde streaks and it ended up looking really washed out.
I figured blonde is the only colour I can go with my dress because I def. want my highlights to stand out a bit but I don't want my colour looking beige.
Any suggestions on what colour I should do? If I get my hair dyed honey or something, the pigmentation might make it copper...? (link)
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If I saw a picture of you I'd be able to answer this better. But imagining it I think it would look fine. But I also agree with you. Blonde would look better, but you have to think, why change what you look like? Why care what other people think! (sorry i couldn't aswer this one well)
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my prom dress is brown and cream. my date doesnt have to wear a tux, and he's not going to. what color pants, shirt and shoes should he wear? (link)
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Well maybe e should wear a white shirt and black pants. Or another option would be to pick what you and him likes. If I saw a picture of him I could answer this better. sorry.
***Haley***
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I have a grade 6 talent show coming up, and tryouts are tomorrow, i don't know what I should do! I stink at dancing and all my cd's have the voice on them, so i can't sing. What should I do? (link)
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Well, I don't know how to deal with the time. But maybe next talent show you can do dancing. All you gotta do is practice, and follow your heart.
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