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should i stay with him?
I have been with my boyfriend for bout 9 days and he already seems serious. not in a sex way like he is already talking about the future (like kids, marriage, and life altogether) thats not bad I guess if I was older but the truth is I'm only a 15 yr old freshman and he's a 17 yr old junior. so should I be glad he's planning ahead and wants to be with me or should I worry.
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Neither. I suppose it's good because it shows that he really likes you and he's not just using you for sex. But he's moving too fast and obviously you're not comfortable. Tell him that you feel this way, you need communication in a relationship for it to work. It's nothing to worry about though, it's not like he's actually applying for houses and things, as long as it's just talk I wouldn't worry too much.
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Not worried necessarily, but I don't think you should put up with that sort of talk either. You know it's unrealistic, and if he doesn't realize that it's silly to be talking about kids and marriage after dating a fifteen year old for nine days, then he is out of touch with reality.
Ask him why he would say those things and ask him to stop. They are silly, and in some ways cruel to you both to build up such far-reaching dreams so early on in a relationship.
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well I'm not sure. I think he really likes you. That's why he's doing what he's doing. If you don't like it break up with him.
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The age difference is too much. You are a Freshmen in high school. You are just now getting an idea of what you want in the future. He is 17, and he's got a pretty good idea of what he wants and he's already talking about marriage and children, you know, things that you aren't even thinking about because you are only 15.
It's been 9 days and he's already talking about a future with you. That is how different you both are. I know you are thinking that it's only two years, but apparently not since he's discussing marriage with you, You both are in different places in your lives.
-TheTeenGirl
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You should try talking to him about slowing down. He may not realize what he is doing is upsetting you. If he doesn`t stop, then you should break up with him. You are only 15, and have plenty of time to worry about thatn stuff later in life. =) &herats; Julia
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