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is he lying
My boyfriend is older then me Im 15 he's 17. he tells me he loves me and I believe him. We've been together for 9 days. Im not a virgin and neither is he. I've decided to give up on having sex and so he says he'll never pressure me into doing it. But when were on the phone together he makes certain sexual comments to me about things he wants to do to me or how his penis miss's me. Is he just messin around and bein flirty or is this his way of pressure into sex?
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He's probably joking to you, but serious on the inside lol. but he probably isn't pressuring you into doing anything, because i'm sure he respects the fact that you don't want to do anything like that yet. hope this helps
Alan
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well my ex and agreed not to have sex because she wasn't ready. i still made the occasional joke. and so did she. hes probably just kidding around.
but. after nine days i find it hard to believe that he can be saying i love you honestly unless there is alot more history between you two than you mentioned.
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Are you feeling pressured?
If you are feeling pressured, it doesn't so much matter his intentions as the fact that you are uncomfortable. If you are uncomfortable, tell him so and ask him too stop.
On the other hand, if you just enjoy what he is saying as playful and don't feel like he is trying to pressure you or bully you into anything sexual, then you are fine, stop worrying about it.
I'll admit, if I choose not to have sex and my boyfriend made comments about his genital I'd be annoyed. Actually, if any male I had known for only 9 days made comments about his genital I'd be annoyed. I don't find that to be respectful or an appropriate subject for someone I am not in a sexual relationship with to be making. But like I said, it's all about what bothers you.
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