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somehow I always end up having really short relationships. Half the time its because of me I end up breaking up with them. And when I mean short I mean days/week or two. I dont kno whats wrong with me. I want a lasting relationship. Maybe my standerds are to high. It just seems to me that I need a guy that will be there for me because im so clincaly depressed I cant have them not call for days or not see them for a long time its just to hard on me.
I just broke up with my bf and now i feel bad because what if he was suposed to be mysoul mate? but I couldnt stay with him because I questiond him and I questiond being with someone
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Whats wrong with me? what should I do?
I really want someone to be there for me. A guy I want a bf that will last.
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Seems like you may have some issues that you need to explore. Your self esteem makes you very insecure about yourself and relationships. You seem like your very scared about being hurt. You wont be able to trust anyone until you feel good and comfortable within yourself. You need to look after yourself and find ways to have a positive attitude everyday. I would need you to explain a bit more about how you are feeling to give you more advice, otherwise i think you need to let out all your problems and start a fresh new life and be motivated. Message me if you would like to continue furthur..
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Most of the time the harder you look for someone, the harder it is to find. There's nothing wrong with you. I don't know how old you are, but this could just mean that you really aren't ready for a relationship like you think you are. People change and its ok to not be with someone forever, especially if you're younger. You have to go through different people to find out what you like and what you don't like. You can't just want something to last, you have to try to make it last and put everything you have into it. You're gonna have your ups and downs but you have to work through those. Don't just give up if something isn't how you like. No one is perfect. If you meet someone and you don't like something about them, give them another chance. Get to know them before you get rid of them. There's no way you can get to know someone in a couple days. It could take a while. If you don't think you're ready for a relationship, make new friends. Ones that will always be there for you and that won't hurt you in the long run. Just give yourself some time. Good luck!
♥ Evy
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