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I heard that Steve Irwin the crocadile hunter guy was killed.
I don't know if that is true or not true?
Can someone tell me if it is true?
If the crocodile hunter is really dead then how did he get killed? I am so sad if it is true.
while shooting a movie, a stingray stung him, and it poked through his ribcage and poked a hole in his heart, and he died almost instantly. and yes, it is very depresing news. all of australia, and me are mourning his death...it was a crushing blow to the world
if you have a drivers permit and turn 21 years old, how does the "you must drive with someone else over 21" rule work?
someone who is 21 and has had their full license for more than 3 years has to be in the front seat with you. it's the same rule for any age with a permit. i have one too
my dad's offering to buy me a used car. what are some cute cars that aren't too awfully expensive?
chevy impala...buy it used, cuz they're only aobut 20k. idk your price range, so hope this helps
I have gone thru a lot of very difficult times this year--academically and socially. I moved to new york last year. I have few friends here, and the friends I do have i'm not really compatible with on an intellectual or interest-level. i.e., I enjoy reading about current events, the NYT, and ballet/jazz/classical whereas they enjoy clubbing/partying, hate discussing current events, and hate classical music, ballet, jazz, and in general, none of them have a similar type of intellectual curiosity as I do.
I am a shy person, and traditionally, I have let people come to me for friendships. Basically, you could say that I could work on my social skills. I was an introvert throughout my early life until college because I was made fun of a lot by the other girls in my school (I was basically Joan Cusack in high school--glasses, awkward, first to need a bra, girls snapped my bra all the time and called me fatty.)
Anyhow, college was the first time in my life that I could have actual friends who didn't dump me after their cooler friends told them to. In college, I was a workaholic overachiever-type and spent 80% of my free time with my serious bf. Longstory short: we almost got engaged, but I backed out, and I have been single for almost 4 yrs now since college.
Since my ex, I have not met any attractive guys who don't treat me like a piece of meat (want to sleep with me on the first date). Basically, my dating situation is abyssmal. The only men that hit on me either a)expect to score on teh first date OR b)are extremely unattractive physically (overweight and other things as well.)
I have trouble making compatible friends with compatible hobbies. I have tried all meetup groups and have found that I don't really fit in with or find people I form friendships with from meetups to be intellectually satisfying.
I have problems meeting men who don't try to hook up with me on the first date, and my career is in shambles because I just dropped out of a grad program due to getting a C+. Anyhow, I need advice--all the advice I can get on how to improve my life in three respects: I'd like to get back on a positive career trajectory (get a decent job), make more compatible, intellectual friends, and also, since I've been single for about 4 yrs now, find a nice, smart, attractive guy to date who isn't out to get into my pants on the first date, etc.
well, you need to take a little bit to recompose yourself, and try to get your mind back on track, cuz it seems like it's a mess. don't think about guys for a little bit, try to get back on track in school and with your friends. and when you do want to start thinking about guys again, call me. i'm free very often and i wait until at least the 5th or 6th date
i have medium length hair(a little past my shoulders) and its NATURALLY STRAIGHT!!! i try scrunching it many times, but it usualy just goes straight again, or it looks really greasy. ive already tried wetting it, then using gel to scrunch it(and i flipped it upsidedown and did that) but nothing seems to work!! PLEASE HELP ME GET MY HAIR TO LOOK CUTE, YET SCRUNCHED! THANKS!
idk...i find straight hair pretty hot
Well, I have decided that I do NOT want to masturbate. But it gets hard to control my hormones. Is there any way to help me keep my mind off of them or control them better? It would really help because I can't get to sleep because of them!
Thank you in advance.
well, it's very hard to suppress those feelings, because they happen to everyone. try and avoid situations that would make you want to do it, and if you run into a situation like that, try to preoccupy urself by either the comuter, tv, or listening to music, which is my personal favorite. but don't feel bad if those thoughts keep coming, because it is perfectly normal. i get them all the time
Does anyone know how to clean in between the keys on a keyboard? Theres something in between a few keys and it sticks and its annoying. Thanks.
use a cloth, or a q-tip, or even that can of air that u can use to clean a computer keyboard (idk what it's called, but it has that really long and skinny nozzle)
How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love?
you can't answer this. you usually only fall in love very few times, but you'll know whether it's love or not. i am in love with someone, and i knew it immediately that i was in love with her. you'll just know
How can I get my confidence level higher ?
Any tips?????????????????????????
idk...it's really tough... just don't worry about what other people think, and just make sure you know that you're a unique person who is fun to be with, and a great person in general. if you think this then you'll be fine
well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all?
you might regret it eventually, but i think it was a fine idea
is there any way to delete completly an aol screen name and password?someone has my password and logs on as me.
try either changing your password, or go into the master screenname and go into screenname settings, and there should be something there about removing an account. hope this helps
Alan
i have a samsung phone with verizon and i have the unlimited text messaging to anyone in verizon and 50 to people who arent in verizon
my phone also has aim i went on aim and starting talking to my friends thinking it was free but im not really sure if it is..does anyone know if it is?
I have the same exact phone and plan, and it is only free if you have online service in your phone plan. so you should probably check with your parents. hope this helps
Alan
Well today i got my hair cut. I asked her to blow dry it also. But when she blow dryed it, it came out so shiny and healthy lookin and even relatively straaight, but if i do it at home it comes out like fryed looking. Also, before she blow dryed it she put this cream stuff on it.
Does anyone know why it came out so nice looking, and any techniques i could use while blow drying my hair to make it come out the same way.
And if anyone knew what the product or what a product is called, how much it is, and where to find it to make your hair come out healthy looking after blow drying it?
Sry this has so many questions.
I'll rate 5's for anyone who trys.
I'm not sure, but it's always easiest to go to the place where you got your hair cut and ask the woman what she put in it. hope this helps
Alan
My boyfriend is older then me Im 15 he's 17. he tells me he loves me and I believe him. We've been together for 9 days. Im not a virgin and neither is he. I've decided to give up on having sex and so he says he'll never pressure me into doing it. But when were on the phone together he makes certain sexual comments to me about things he wants to do to me or how his penis miss's me. Is he just messin around and bein flirty or is this his way of pressure into sex?
He's probably joking to you, but serious on the inside lol. but he probably isn't pressuring you into doing anything, because i'm sure he respects the fact that you don't want to do anything like that yet. hope this helps
Alan
wow, i definitely made a mistake, and i was at a house where people were drinking. i only sipped a few thing but i didn't even like it so i didn't drink and i didn't get drunk. i should have called my parents and had them pick me up, and i didn't so now they don't trust me at all. this is gonna spread around school quickly and i don't know if i can deal w/ what kind of stuff people could say. i really want to earn my parents trust back but i know that is gonna take a LONG TIME! i wish i could take everything back. what should i do?
Ok, first, don't worry yet about the school people. You have to talk to your parents and tell them the truth and how you swear you are telling the truth, but make sure you tell them everything, including that you had a sip of a drink. explain that you were wrong and that you should have called them, because parents like when their kids realize they did something wrong. trust me my parents and i fight a lot. hope this helps
Alan
how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks.
It's really hard, because it has happened to me before, many times. just try as hard as you can to listen to the teacher, which actually was something new to me...haha jk..anyway, just hang out with your friends, and try not to be alone. make sure that you're always paying attention in class, and always be self-concious about zoning out. hope this helps
Alan
well i saw on one of your questions that you answered that your brother worked at coldstone. well i have an "audition" there so could u please help me understand what to expect while im there. thanks so much
I'm not 100% sure, so don't take my word for it, but i do know for a fact that they will put you in a group of people, and make you sing and make a fool out of yourself, like you will do while you're working (haha, but im serious). i assume that they will ask about yourself, and what kind of a worker you are, and the basics. but i do know that part of it is like an audition for a show/school play (if you've ever done one before). hope this helps
Alan
Hi, I'm from Italy. I met my girlfriend about 7 months ago and I love her very much.She is a very friendly girl and got lots of friends. she is still in contact with some of her exs and that drives me mad.she says they are still friends and if the relationship didnt work well between them does not mean they are bad people and thats why she still is in contact with them, she is also telling me she needs to see them sometimes as the are friends and she miss them but I really don't like it.I don't know how to react and what to tell her or ..maybe I'm wrong.please give me some advice.thanks
I think she that you're overreacting just a little bit, not a lot. you should trust her if she tells you that they are just friends, and nothing more than that. she probably does just want to see her friends, and that shouldn't bug you, because every girl has other guy friends, and that doesn't necessarily mean that she is cheating on you. hope this helps
Alan
i want to start eating healthier but i am a VERY picky eater. does anyone have some recipes that are healthy that i might like.
A safe bet is pretty much anything that's whole wheat (Bread, pasta, you name it, they probably have it). and eat lots of fruit too. hope this helps
Alan
so now since its getting hot, im starting to get really sweaty, and i keep getting teased because of these disguisting sweat stains under my arms. its embarrassing because i keep getting teased. what can i do to solve that problem?
Use deodorant. and if you already do, then try to find a deodorant that is made specifically for keeping dry. hope this helps
Alan