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O.k. so every time I went to the mall I used to love going to the store Delia's. But the last time I went back Delia's was closed down. Then I went to another mall nearby and that Delia's was gone too. So my question is: is Delia's out of business for good? Or is it only in my area? I live in New Jersey if it helps but if you live somewhere else, do you know if the store Delia's is still open for business where you live? Thanks so much in advance =).

Ya its still open I live in Florida and we have one.

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im 15 f and i play fast pitch. fast pitch isn't until fall but i really really need some good pointers on how to get my arm back into shape. Now is the time i need to start getting it back.I am the fast pitch pitcher soo i'm not getting my arm back in shape just for throwing.

does anyone have any warm ups i can use?
What are some good things that will improve my aim?
Any exercizes that I can do without a ball?

ANY advice is very appreciated. I do rate.

Doing push ups will get your arm back in shape. Also For your aim all you can really do is maybe set up a target and keep practicing.

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any idea where i can get a dress similar to
http://www.toywebb.net/images/spice-girls-logo.jpg
the girl infront wearing like the british flag?
its soo cute! and i live in america..
unless i have to go to england to get it.
thats okay, too.

try ebay thats prob where you can find one.

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I dont know what the problem is but i smell really really bad *down there* its disgusting, i'll like open my legs in class or something and this big scent'll come up, its disgusting!! ive never been fingered or anything because it smells so bad. is there anything that will take the scent away. i shower and clean *down there* EVERYDAY. but should i like put something in it?! please help :(

you might have to go to the doctor because you could have an infection. hope you get better

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crack knuckles - bad?

They say it can give you bad joints later on but i think its an old people thing.

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Everytime I watch a video on youtube, i have to wait so long. What is wrong with my computer. It is 1 1/2 years old and it is an emachines with windows XP home edition.

If you have dial up thats why. Its just slow if not it could be the internet that you are using. Try Mozilla. Its very fast

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Last night my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. I have had other boyfriends before and the breaking up wasnt so bad. But I wasnt ready for this one. I cried for like 3 hours straight on the phone with my best friend. I finally got to sleep around 2 oclock. I am having such a hard time...I dont know what to do . I really loved him and obviously its too late to get him back now.. so please dont suggest that. What can I do to feel better. It's so horrible.. nothing this bad has ever happened to me. I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of person what will people think when I'm moping around school on monday ???
I cant eat, i cant sleep and later today I have to sit through a broadway play with my mother. I'm going to die...HE was so wonderfull..
OMG HELP!

The play will be good for you. It will help you get your mind off of him. Try doing things that don't remind you of him. spend time with your other friends. Pick up a new hobby.

Hope it all works out

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okay so ive had this boyfriend for 3 1/2 months and i love him to death. he can make me smile like no other & we have the best times together. well we got in this fight tuesday night & he didnt speak to me all day wedenseday. finally i call him DURING my tennis match & am like "you ethier stil want to be with me or not" & hes like "i dont know right now." & im like "make up your mind & if you dont have an answer when i hang up im gonna assume were over and go on with it." & he said "go ahead." so i did. anyways he messaged me on myspace the other night saying he still loves me like he did & cares for me he is just stil so mad at me and cant be with someone who wont listen to him or ignores him & hes having it rough at home right now & its not a good time. okay i didnt listen once & once again i was at my tennis match & couldnt exactly be the best listener right then. anywayss i texted him saturday asking if he wanted to do somethin before i leave for spring break & hes like "sorry i already got plans to go to a party with randi." so randi is suppose to be "just a friend" yet he rather hang wit her then me. & i was really upset so he texted me asking if i wa s okay. & i said "i will be." & he said whats wrong and i put "dont worry about it. it dont matter anymore. i realized im wasting my time." he replied "you know im not expecting you just to sit at home and wait on me you have a life live it." that made me so mad. like i want to be with him so bad & i thought he still wanted to be with me but then now i dont know. what do i do?? like everyone tells me i can do so much better. even though he says "he can get any girl and im lucky he chose me." wth?! 1st off not many ppl want a guy wwith a mohawk! but thats off subject. should i hold on & wait for him or let him go?

sorry so long, thanks for reading.

If you really truly love him you will wait. He sounds like hes trying to make you jealous. Hes being immature about it. Maybe he can't handle a girlfriend. hope it all works out.

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okay i have a couple of questions:

1. i have movies downloaded on Ares and i was wondering if there was like a special way to transfer it to itunes. ebcasue everytime i try, it doesn't work.

and

2.i have a 4 gig black ipod nano. if i were to delete EVERYTHING off my ipod and put like an episode of a show on, would it work?

No you have to have the video Ipod to do that. Sorry:[

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okay, well i really can't find any bathing suits that will fit me right because i have huge boobs. like no joke. and all of the juniors bathing suits never fit on the top. so my mom tried to get me to get a tankini but i really don't want one. i got a bathing suit that like comes across so it doesnt go down, and that works but then im like insecure about my stomach. do you know any ideas to get a flatter stomach in 12 days!?!?!?!?!!? i don't care what it takes. i NEEd to. i use the tredmille veryday and the eliptical and try to do about 100 crunches on the ab loyunge tihng.

Well that girl is wrong there is one thing that can help get your stomach looking great in little time. It hurts a lot but it works. You have to lie on your back with your boy flat. Life your legs 6 inches off the ground for 100 seconds. Do that a couple times a day.

hope it helps

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I would really like a date for the Homecoming dance at my high school in october. I know of a guy i would like to go with, but today I found out he likes another girl. So, how can I flirt with him to get him to notice me? I only see him one or two times a day. Also, he is notorious for being the nice guy and asking the girl who needs a date rather than who he really wants to go with. So I would like to somehow make sure that he actually asks me on his own accord, rather than simply because he feels sorry for me. Any suggestions? Thanks so much! :)

Give him your number tell him theres this group thing an invite him out. get to know him then if he doesnt ask you ask

hope it helps

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I am 16 and I just had lost my virginity to my bf. He and I are in love and I wanted it to be with him. We have used protection, but during my first time I lost a lot of blood, presumably because of his size. It did pain to an extent, but there was just so much blood loss and I wonder is that an issue? Does that mean there is something wrong with me? We tried having sex again after my first time in a couple of days because we didn't finish but I still was bleeding. I’m scared and well the bleeding went away, but I haven’t gotten my period. It’s already like 4 days late and I’m scared. My bf says I probably have not gotten it because I lost a lot of blood during sex and he is positive that I am not pregnant because he didn’t even ejaculate in me and we used a condom. I’m scared because well does this mean I’m pregnant or Is there something wrong with me?

i agree i dont think you have much to worry about just be careful

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alright, so, we all make mistakes, just, some worse then others

well, yesterday I went to go trim my hair, the lady ended up taking an inch & 1/2 off
so, it didn't look good & I wasn't too happy
so, I went to go get it dyed to maybe make it look better, I tried to dye it dark brown, but it came out black (I'm naturally a blonde, so, imagine how that looks with my skin)

so, what I'm asking is, how do I grow my hair out faster?
& how do I fade the color A TON?

thanks!

There is no way to make your hair grow faster or fade it just re dye it

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Okay so like a i've only beens friends with this guy Alan for like about two months. Last week he asked me if i wanted to go to the movies that friday (two days ago) with him. Well i have social anxiety disorder and i take anti depressants/anxiety pills prescribed by my psychiatrist. and when he asked me if i wanted to; i began sweating 5000000 mi per hour. i havent gone to a lotta places this summer and since its almost over; i decided to go. i also brought two of my friends to see if it'd help. ohkay well skipping to the main part of my story; he told me he expected better. he doesnt understand that i hurt myself (cut) after every event or hangout and hoping my anxiety would stop. and i never got to bring myself to killing myself. i do want to but i dont. im just confused. what he said hurt me so much. i dont really have a specific question but.. what do i do now?

Well hes prob. concerned about you. Cutting is very dangerous. If you hit your artery you WILL die in 3 min. I might even be a little scared because its a big issue. I think you need to tell someone because this is very dangerous and about Alan just give him time

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I had really bad acne so I went to a dermatologist and they gave me some really good things to rid of the zits. I guess I used them too much and I completely dried out my face. My nose and cheeks are soo red because I irritated my face. I went back to the dermatologist and they said to just stop putting stuff on my face and wait for 2 or 3 days to see if the redness goes away. It's been like 4 days and my face is still soo dried out and the zits are still there. What can I do to stop the irritation on my face? I waited a couple of days and that didn't work.

Well the first thing you should do is put on some face lotion so your face can get hydrated and even some aloe but on some cold compress's and maybe change Docters. You should try proactive it works

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hi. i'm fourteen. and i was wondering if any one knows of any placces that i could work.

thanks

yeah there's not alot of places to work at 14 just babysitting car wahes and publix.

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my hair is fryed. it has a lot of breakage and some split ends. how can i get it healthy?

Garnier Futise 3-min conditioner works wonders use lots of conditioner and stay out of the sun

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ok well i want my hair lighter but my mom wont let me dye it so how can i get lighter hair without dying it? thankz i rate high

use sun in its just a spray that attracts the sun to your hair and lightens it. its works almost instantly

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allright well here we goo..
what are some cute/flirty things you can do to get a guys attention that you havent met before? i always see these cute guys..but then i never have the confidence to go up and talk to them because they will be like um hi i dont know you..and thats kinda weird? soo if i could get their attention..some say im pretty but i dont see it so i dont think i could get it by the looks i dont know! and if i am with a guy like i said before what are some cute/sexy things i could do that he would like? thanks..
i will rate 5

Smile guys love a pretty smile. a small wave. WHen they look your way smile and flip your hair

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Okay. so my hair is really straight. and when i say straight i mean straight. There is no wave or curl to it whatsoever. My question is how can i make it curly. Do perms turn out okay? i dont want it tightly curled just like loose curls. Help!! Ill rate, i promise. =]

if you use a curling iron the curls will be tight at first but then they will get loose and it gets really pretty or you couls do the gell and moose thing just scrunch your hair

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