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boy problem..what else is new.
okay so ive had this boyfriend for 3 1/2 months and i love him to death. he can make me smile like no other & we have the best times together. well we got in this fight tuesday night & he didnt speak to me all day wedenseday. finally i call him DURING my tennis match & am like "you ethier stil want to be with me or not" & hes like "i dont know right now." & im like "make up your mind & if you dont have an answer when i hang up im gonna assume were over and go on with it." & he said "go ahead." so i did. anyways he messaged me on myspace the other night saying he still loves me like he did & cares for me he is just stil so mad at me and cant be with someone who wont listen to him or ignores him & hes having it rough at home right now & its not a good time. okay i didnt listen once & once again i was at my tennis match & couldnt exactly be the best listener right then. anywayss i texted him saturday asking if he wanted to do somethin before i leave for spring break & hes like "sorry i already got plans to go to a party with randi." so randi is suppose to be "just a friend" yet he rather hang wit her then me. & i was really upset so he texted me asking if i wa s okay. & i said "i will be." & he said whats wrong and i put "dont worry about it. it dont matter anymore. i realized im wasting my time." he replied "you know im not expecting you just to sit at home and wait on me you have a life live it." that made me so mad. like i want to be with him so bad & i thought he still wanted to be with me but then now i dont know. what do i do?? like everyone tells me i can do so much better. even though he says "he can get any girl and im lucky he chose me." wth?! 1st off not many ppl want a guy wwith a mohawk! but thats off subject. should i hold on & wait for him or let him go?
sorry so long, thanks for reading.
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All I know is that if you still want to be with this guy, you need to sit down and talk to him. Find out exactly why it is that he thinks you don't listen or that you ignore him. You may be doing it and don't even realize.
Big word of advice- Never have such conversations over the phone, internet, or text messages. You need to talk about this face to face.
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If you really truly love him you will wait. He sounds like hes trying to make you jealous. Hes being immature about it. Maybe he can't handle a girlfriend. hope it all works out.
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