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virginity and periods
I am 16 and I just had lost my virginity to my bf. He and I are in love and I wanted it to be with him. We have used protection, but during my first time I lost a lot of blood, presumably because of his size. It did pain to an extent, but there was just so much blood loss and I wonder is that an issue? Does that mean there is something wrong with me? We tried having sex again after my first time in a couple of days because we didn't finish but I still was bleeding. I’m scared and well the bleeding went away, but I haven’t gotten my period. It’s already like 4 days late and I’m scared. My bf says I probably have not gotten it because I lost a lot of blood during sex and he is positive that I am not pregnant because he didn’t even ejaculate in me and we used a condom. I’m scared because well does this mean I’m pregnant or Is there something wrong with me?
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you might have gotten your period while having sex
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If he didn't ejaculate in you and you used a condom, the chances of you being pregnant are very low, but still possible. So don't rule that possibility out right away. I'm not sure how normal it is to lose as much blood as you say you did, but i'm sure it's nothing to worry about to an extent. If you continue to have sex, and the bleeding doesn't lighten, then I would get that checked out by your OB/GYN or your family doctor. I'm almost positive there is nothing wrong with you. You were probably just really tight, not well lubricated, and in a lot of pain while at the same time his penis size was larger than most. Most likely he just popped your cherry (ripped your hymen) and ripped your skin a little. Don't worry, it's nothing to seriously bad.
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i agree i dont think you have much to worry about just be careful
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The first time you have sex may cause you to bleed a small amount, but not for days. My guess would be that you had your period, its timing just wasn't the best. You see the hymen has spaces in it to allow
the blood from menstruation to get through. Could be that when yours broke it just happened to be there waiting. That doesn't sound real hi tech but hopefully its understandable!
Using protection is no guarantee you won't get pregnant but it lowers your chances a lot. I don't think you are pregnant. I think your next period will come as usual. If it doesn't then get concerned. I am passing on a website that had bunches and bunches of info for you. Great site for all teens to read. It will answer most questions you may have about sex concerns and more. :)
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