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My boyfriend broke up with me.
Last night my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. I have had other boyfriends before and the breaking up wasnt so bad. But I wasnt ready for this one. I cried for like 3 hours straight on the phone with my best friend. I finally got to sleep around 2 oclock. I am having such a hard time...I dont know what to do . I really loved him and obviously its too late to get him back now.. so please dont suggest that. What can I do to feel better. It's so horrible.. nothing this bad has ever happened to me. I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of person what will people think when I'm moping around school on monday ???
I cant eat, i cant sleep and later today I have to sit through a broadway play with my mother. I'm going to die...HE was so wonderfull..
OMG HELP!
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Hey,
aww, thats okay. It's going to be alright okay? I can help you out here.
Well first of all, I wouldn't suggest getting him back. Thats really not the smartest thing for someone to suggest, so if anyone ever suggests that to you like in the future tell them they're an idiot.
Okay, so first thing you have to do is start working on the getting over him part. You have to think forward to the good things that this will bring okay? I understand what you mean about people wondering whats going on monday when you're still alittle upset, because that would probably be one of my worries too, but you just have to try to put him out of your mind, I'll try and halp you with that.
Okay so there are lots of steps to moving on. The first one i alsway suggest is getting involved, and seeing as you're a happy go lucky person, you probably are pretty involved in school seeing as they kind of go hand in hand, But you need to find something completely new. Like start volunteering some where or find a new sport or something, because it signifies achievment and the moving on process, so you need to pick something totally new.
Then theres spending time doing things that make you that happy go lucky person you are. Plan big things with your friends and look forward to those when you are upset about this kay?
Then theres me time. You have to set aside time each week to just hang out and have a bubble bath and totally relax not thinking about him.
The last step is finding someone new. It's the very last step, and there are more in between, but you might not neeed to hit all of them, so I'll just mention this one, basically you need to pick a random guy to think about to get your mind off of him. HE doesnt have to be someone you'll ever date, just someone to think about. That hot guy in math class that has a girlfriends already or that kid in math whose cute, but you just could never see yourself with him. Just think about what would ever happen if you two got together and just basically pretend that you would be chaeting on them to think about your ex.
Things will look up okay? You're going through something rough now, but it will get easier, and if you need any more help I've got your back so don't worry about it this will get better. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Love ya,
Angie91
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My boyfriend of 7 months just broke up with me like a month ago, as well. I understand EXACTLY what you're going through. & Of course I'm not going to tell you to get back with him. I don't know if you're still talking to him. But, if you are, you should definitely stop doing that first off. The problem I made was I kept talking to my boyfriend after he broke up with me, for like 3 weeks. Then a week ago, I just realized, I don't need him. He obviously didn't need me, so running back to him about all my problems isn't going to help any. You can find qualities in him that you loved, in other people. Like your best friend. The weekend may suck because you know, you don't have him around and all. And, you're laying around, watching tv, playing on the computer when you could be hanging out with him, so of course he'll be on your mind all day. But, when you go to school on Monday, and your hanging out with your friends, and when your in class, he'll probably be in the back of your mind. It'll take time, definitely. I mean, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, and to this day, I'm always wondering things I could've done different.
Seriously, though. Your feelings for him will soon deteriorate, you may not want that to happen right now. But, it'll be for the best. If you ever feel like calling him, or something - talk to anyone but him. You'll eventually find someone who will make you feel better. Try talking to more guys. That always helps me, because I know that if a guys there for me, then someone atleast cares. You know? Take care & things will get better, I promise.
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The play will be good for you. It will help you get your mind off of him. Try doing things that don't remind you of him. spend time with your other friends. Pick up a new hobby.
Hope it all works out
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