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they're taking over my life!


Question Posted Monday September 4 2006, 9:07 pm

Well, I have decided that I do NOT want to masturbate. But it gets hard to control my hormones. Is there any way to help me keep my mind off of them or control them better? It would really help because I can't get to sleep because of them!


Thank you in advance.

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adviceforlife answered Thursday September 7 2006, 7:40 pm:
Well, I get the feeling.. A LOT. Funny thing is.. I'm a GIRL! In fact, sometimes it can be better than the real thing. I'm no longer a virgin so it's on my mind constantly. There is nothing wrong with masturbating if you think its funny or wrong. I do it all the time. If you have the urge I think you should do what it wants of you, otherwise you'll just die of the "want". It was in the middle of the night, woke up and was mad horny. But if you really don't want to, uccupy yourself with something else.

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ALN424 answered Wednesday September 6 2006, 3:17 pm:
well, it's very hard to suppress those feelings, because they happen to everyone. try and avoid situations that would make you want to do it, and if you run into a situation like that, try to preoccupy urself by either the comuter, tv, or listening to music, which is my personal favorite. but don't feel bad if those thoughts keep coming, because it is perfectly normal. i get them all the time

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NinjaNeer answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 5:16 pm:
Well, silly question. Is there any particular reason why you don't want to? It is a personal choice, and it's definitely up to you, but it is a perfectly healthy way to release pent-up sexual tension.

BUT, assuming that you are firm in your decision, try starting a new sport or some sort of physical activity. Burning off your steam with a strong workout will help you sleep!

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CHECKERED-LOVE answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 3:04 pm:
my friend told me that she doesnt want to either so whenever she gets urges she goes to the bathroom, eats something small and reads. it helps according to her.

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adviice_whore answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 8:41 am:
do other things to get your mind off of it like excersize, hang out with friends watch tv or a movie or read a book, listen to music.just keep yourself entertained and busy so you dont have time to worry about your hormones.when your sleeping and you start thinking about it try to think about something else like school,your crush,your friends,family and anything that means alot to you. thats truly all you can do! =) good luck.

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