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stupid boy.
how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks.
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It's really hard, because it has happened to me before, many times. just try as hard as you can to listen to the teacher, which actually was something new to me...haha jk..anyway, just hang out with your friends, and try not to be alone. make sure that you're always paying attention in class, and always be self-concious about zoning out. hope this helps
Alan
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Try to like surround yourself with friends, and a lot of other activities. Don't let yourself have like free time. When you are doing like something where like you are just doing nothing and you have a lot of time to think, think about other things like mulitpictaion problems. Make up problems in your head complicated ones and try and solve them. Its challenging and distracting and if he does come into your mind just come up with something anything else. If you like a certian tv show think about the hot guy in that show but only for a little while. After a while he will fade away and you will be able to study more easily again. My best friend is going threw this exact same thing right now. Good luck. Don't ever give up maybe he is ment to be on your mind. But good luck.
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hhhmm i have been through this predicament, maby twice in my life, and its a hard thing to deal with. and both times they were like 2 of my best freinds brothers, so i saw them like every day! and i couldnt get them out of my head no matter how hard i tried, i now know the secret to end this heart brake, concentrate on other things, i know it may be ealyy hard but you have to try, and get involved with some activities, like sports or clubs, or do SOMETHING other then sit around half assing it and daydreaming about him, it will tear you apart, beleive me it will unless u get control of it. mabye even try to get a new man in your life so u wont think about the other guy. c when i was obsessing over the first dude, i was killing myself without even knowing it, and it seemed as though every time i saw him, i would star the heartache all over again, then a few years later(*yes it took me about 2 years to get over him)i moved away and didnt see him as much then my obssession started fading away and other IMPORTANT things in my life that i neverused to pay attention to, started becoming my main focus, and you know what, I felt sooo much better and alive than i had benn previously. so just try to not be around him so much, get involved in things and get busy and distract your mind away from him. It will work, it always does.
i hope i helped,
your freind katie ;)
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I've got the same problem and I haven't found anything that works other than sports. The more he gives me mixed signals, the more i fall in love with him. Ever since I had my crush, my grade in History went from B to D- and my grade in English went from B+ to D+. I try to convince myself to hate him because deep inside me i feel like its his fault that Im doing worse in school, but I know that its not his fault. If your truly in love, you won't be able to make yourself get over him. =( yeah, it sucks.
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-Brittany
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Dear Stupid boy,
first things first,
you need to realize that no matter what no boy how ever specail he may feel to you is worth tormentng your grades. Im kinda into a guy where i go to skool hes gorgouse. i went through the same problem with him. He was on my mind all the time and it was interfereing with my skool work. I just made my self realize, ya know what girl, sitting here thinking about him makes each class go by so slow. so if i work hard time will pass quicker and that means i get to see him in the hall even sooner. that should help with the skool part of it any way. as for the socail part your friends should coem b4 guys. no good guy would ever want you losing a friend over him and if he does, hes not worth it any way.
~*~Jayla~*~
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Crazy, isn't it? What's worse is seeing your best friend all over him and then daydreaming about him. Anyway :-), I would recommend you throw yourself into something else, something new and exciting that you havent done before like a martial art. It would be a symbol of moving on, just like dying your hair or getting a tattoo would have the same effect. Celebrate what is so wonderful about you and spend lots of time with your friends. Listen to some great music that you can dance to and that makes you happy your on your own eg. Kelly Clarkson - Since u been gone (cheesy i know but it really works!).
However the real solution would be to tell him. There may be some reason why you can't and thats okay but if you are just presuming it wouldn't work out, then that is just as crazy as this situation. Imagine how great it would be if you could be with him?!!! Don't die wondering what could have been, tell him how you feel!!! Ignore the above if there is a specific reason it wouldn't work though.
Good luck, get him out of your head and move on. It's difficult but you will just end up depressed and lonely otherwise and thats the worst thing in the world.
Sapphire Lily xxx
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Haha, I used to be just like you. Honestly I don't know how I got over him--well not OVER him but the fact of daydreaming every other 5 minutes. If you're a teenager, its bound to happen. Just stay focused on schoolwork. Use the thought of your grades to help motivate you and stay on top of things. I don't know if you ever got like this, but dreaming about him and then also knowing that things won't work out kind of depressed me a little. I would use that and it helped me realize that I don't want to be depressed. What makes people happy? Having a social life. So instead of sitting there dreaming about something that will never happen, call your friends and go to the movies... or do that science worksheet that you had for homework last night that you couldn't seem to do before.
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