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Member Since: April 27, 2006
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Last Update: May 1, 2006
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I`ve been abused by my dad sense I was little. He hasnt done it as much but he has been doing it still. Last night he hit my really bad with his fists nd choked me. I love my family so much but it hurts me so bad that I get hurt and I feel like im not worth anything. What should I do? I dont like living here but I wouldnt like living anywhere else! what should i do? My dad has been reported to the department of human services but they never do anything. Im 15 by the way. Im just tired of being hit and left with bruises and the emotional pain!

what should i do? (link)
hun,
you need to talk to a teacher or another adult you trust and right away. there is no excuse for you fathers behaior. you need to be strong and do what you need to do for yourself. It will make your life a whole lot better if you do. tell the adult that your scared and you want then to take you to the police to speak with an officer. open up and tell the officer everything. even the smallest details. try it good luck

~*~Jayla~*~


how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks. (link)
Dear Stupid boy,

first things first,
you need to realize that no matter what no boy how ever specail he may feel to you is worth tormentng your grades. Im kinda into a guy where i go to skool hes gorgouse. i went through the same problem with him. He was on my mind all the time and it was interfereing with my skool work. I just made my self realize, ya know what girl, sitting here thinking about him makes each class go by so slow. so if i work hard time will pass quicker and that means i get to see him in the hall even sooner. that should help with the skool part of it any way. as for the socail part your friends should coem b4 guys. no good guy would ever want you losing a friend over him and if he does, hes not worth it any way.

~*~Jayla~*~


Hey, I'm 14 years old, I was just wondering if it is possible for a 14 year old to get the birth control pill, but only use it for like a month. Because, I'm going somewheres over the summer for 2 weeks at a camp, and my mom and i calculated the weeks, and most likely i'll have my period then...and i really dont want to get it, because i'll be taking a lot of classes, and i dont want to have to ask to use the bathroom all the time... I'm still using pads, i dont like tampons, maybe tampons would give me more time so i dont have to change my pad every hour...but, get back to me on that whole birth control pill. Thanks! {oh, sorry this was long, and no i dont plan on having sex, thats not what i need the pill for thanks!} (link)
hey,
its not a good idea. the pill makes you gain weight and im sure thats not something you want and other reasons but ill get bak to you on that.

Jayla


sorry idk what catagory to put this under but whatever.

every night i take a shower but every other night i use a shower cap and dont wash my hair. a few people at school said that its bad to wash your hair everyday. i know it strips the oils out but should i not wash it every night? should i not wash it 2 days in a row? my hair is really thick and after taking a shower, my hair gets frizzy. what are some ways i can prevent friz after taking a shower? also i straighten my hair every morning but i dont like burning it so much, i just hate having it so frizzy when i wake up. so, what are some ways i can keep the friz down after taking my shower (and the results will last long through the day).

it would be amazing if you can answer all the questions i had in that paragraph. thanks, ill rate high for anything you give me (link)
dear washing hair,
while its true washing your hair too often can strip the oils from your hair some people find it rather well, disgusting not to wash it every day. if you are one of those people then just make sure that you use a clarifying shampoo at least twice a month. as for the frizz my hair does the same thing. i use shampoos that are especailly made for dry frizzy hair and if i plan to straighten it i use one that says its for straightening. a good brand for that would be umberto giannini sleek and chic. it works wonders. and one more thing try swtiching the brand of shampoo you use every two or three months. after a while your hair molecules build up an immunity to a shampoo. try it ! good luck !!!

Jayla




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