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love or friendship, should i risk it


Question Posted Monday May 1 2006, 8:42 pm

14/female
i like one of my guy best friends. were kind of fake flirting all the time (like you know just kidding around) and our friends are always teasing us, saying were going out, we like each other, etc.
Today my friend got pissed at me, and told him I really liked him (I know trust me she is so dead). Once he mentioned this to me, I desperetly tried to cover. Saying this is what they always do and stuff. Im not sure how sucessful this was, since it was only like an hour or so ago, but he was kind of acting weird to me on the computer. Before I found out about this, we were discussing who he likes. He said no one and he swore on one of my friend's lives. Because of this, Im pretty sure he doesnt like me. I want to know whether it is worth telling him how I feel, even if it means I might lose him, one of my best friends, in the process. Any advice on what to do would help. I give a lot of fives!


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freckles194 answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 2:33 pm:
its happened to me before, and i keept denyin it but if you like him aleast try, i should of done that instead of denyin it i would have felt alot better than what i did!!! if you tell him and he feels the same way then great i know it will be hard but at least you wont reget it!! n if he doesnt then people will get over it, if hes as nice as u make out then he wont mind. tell him in private n ask him not to tell any1 cause then if the worst comes 2 come the worst olny u 2 will know!!! good luck

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INeedAdvice022 answered Monday May 1 2006, 11:33 pm:
It really does depend..is it killing you inside to let him no? i no thats how i feel but i think he does no so yea...if it is i think you should risk it if not? think about it a little more

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maniac answered Monday May 1 2006, 9:45 pm:
Okay, it depends on how much you like them. If you tell him how you feel, and he doesn't like you back, you said you could lose him, and your friend. But if you don't tell him, you won't lose nothing. I dream about a guy I like, but I can't tell him how I feel because he moved. I wouldn't tell him. It's not worth being embarassed if he doesn't like you AND losing your friend.

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