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i feel so bad for my friend
My friend (she can be A) is dealing with a very difficult person. It is beyond my advice so I'm looking to others for some. Well, her friend (let's say K) has done the meanest things I have ever heard to A. They sit at a cool lunch table but they started ganging up on her. For example, today they (even they admitted online that they) were watching her at lunch to find things wrong about her. Also, K curses at her online. K is like Satan. I sware, she is the most coldhearted girl in America. Anyway, my friend tried to talk to her but that's just not in the cards for K. Sometimes they exclude her and say that she wants to be the center of attention all the time. I was just shocked when I heard this. And another thing; K talks stuff about this other girl too. Not only was this girl my best friend for almost all of my life, but she is my neighbor too. I don't know how to help my friends! They come to me for answers but this time, I'm clueless. What can I do?
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ok i deffinitly think k shouldnt be your friend at all if shes that mean i dont no about you but i deff. woudnt want a friend like that i would just say to k that you think a is right and even if she gets mad at you we all no that your right and you woud be helping a alot beacause she prob doesnt have that many REAL friends right now i hope that helped
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The same thing is happening with my group of friends, except a bit differently. My friend has been treated rudely { not to the extent of how "K" has been treating her} but, it still hurt her. So, my one friend and I took our friend "under our wing" and decided we wanted to be friends with her no matter what, because she really is an awesome chick. Me and my friend have talked to the people who have been mean to her, and told her its not nice. Hopefully, you understand that "K" is doing this for attention, and to make herself feel better. Since your not friends with "K" maybe get a group of people to go up to her and let her know that what shes doing is not right. And say it in front of people, so that she gets embarressed. As for your friend, tell her on aol, print out all of the nasty things they say and bring it to the guidence office/counselor. You need to tell her not to be scared to do this. No one, absolutely no one should have to feel uncomfortable to be in school or out of school. And you can't be afraid to make a stand and stick up for this girl either. Good Luck.
-Brina
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its like the sang Friends dont let friends do drugs..okay you have to do something about "k" she not all high and mighty even though she thinks she is, I promise where theres a will theres a way. You have to go up to "k" and show her whos boss be like" "look 'k' I dont like you messing with my friends it just shows your mean and if you talk behind all your friends backs , witch im sure you do , then it means that your really the bad one not them it means you have no real friends." this will show her not to mess with you or your friends. and it will also show anyone that is her friend that they arent her real friends...well i hope this kind of helped<3allie
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