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Friend or not?
Ok so I've known this girl since like second grade and I feel like she wants to ditch me and hang out with a new group of friends. What should I do? I have other friends, but it seems like if she had the choice to pick them or me, shed pick them. I've tried to talk to her about it but all she says is that I ma her best friend and that they are her friends, sometimes I don't believe it, even though i want to. Please help because this situation has been happening for over two years now and I've just about had it! Will rate 5's if you help!
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i had the same thing happen to me except i didnt no the person that long and i was the person who wanted to "ditch" the other person and i no that sounds mean but i really dont mean it that way i dodnt want to ditch her cause she wasnt still nice but because we just grew apart that we both new the friendship was over so dont be mad at her maybe you should just find a new group of friends but still stay in touch with her after all you dont wanna ruin what you had if you have more questions just ask i hope i helped
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unfortunitly my advice may and may not help, this is a trial for the heart really. You have to remember that although you may not believe it, but people change as well as the tides of the seas. what you could do though is just ride it out, i know its not much but if she really ment what she said then she wont ditch you, if she does then it's the tides of time that changed a persons soul. remember things don't last forever; from people to opinions, to love and hate, nothing ever stays the same. I hope for the best my friend and confront this with your full concentration. loseing a good friend is like a step to death in the heart of one. take care buddy
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i've had that happen to me before and trust me she isnt ditching shell probably always be your best friend, but somtimes people dont always wanna hand out with same person/people constantly everyday trust me this is normal. i hope i answered your question!
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she probably isnt ditching you, she probably decided to meet new people and she probbaly means that you two are best friends. if you dont want her hanging out with them, you could hang out with her more often and do fun things so she will want to hang out with you more or you could hang out with her and her other friends and you all can be good friends
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If she says your her best friend, she probably means it. If she didn't want to be your best friend anymore she would let you know without hurting your feelings. Just believe what she says until you have 100% proof that she's lying.
I've gone through the same thing. To cope with it, I just asked my friend to hang out all the time so that way I wouldn't feel insecure or left out.
Just invite her over a lot and that way you won't feel she has a new group of friends.
Any more questions? Feel free to ask.
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