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Q: I went on a date with a guy that I've been friends with for a long time at a restaurant. He's not officially my boyfriend or anything yet. After we finished our meal, you know how restaurants usually leave a mint or candy with the bill? Well this particular dining establishment had left two suckers. I asked my friend if he wanted one and he said no, so I started sucking on the sucker. He was watching me almost like he was gettig turned on. The he said that he thought I had a "sucker fetish".
I don't know very much about guys and what goes on in their dirty minds. Can someone tell me if this was his way of hitting on me, or letting me know he wanted more than a friendship from me?
He could just be joking around, or he may want you to *hum* you know, suck him.

Q: my 8 month old black pekingese-poodle has this big red bubble thing on her eye, its like almost under her right eye lid. She ahs this before but not this bad, we pushed it back into her eye but now like a month later, it came back out and she won't let us pish it back in. Does anyone ahve an idea on waht this is?
Take the dog to a vet!!!!

Q: When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?

NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what
I give almost everyone fives. Unless....... they act like a smart a**.

Q: im having a bit of make up trouble. some people wear tons of makeup, and look really good, and some people just plain over do it. I know i dont over do it. sisnce i only put on:

lip gloss
foundation
concealer

& thats all. but i want to look pretty. without looking like some circus clown. and ideas on what to put on and how to do it? no web sites please :)
Do what you're already doing, but add some mascara, a thin line of eye liner of the bottom of your eye, some eyeshadow that's a couple shades darker than your stim tone. If you want you can add blush, but personally I don't wear that myself.

Q: i know its illegal to have sexual intercourse with someone over 18 if youre a minor... but is it illegal to date them/ have oral sex? just curious...

ill rate if its good
It isn't illegal to date them, but it is illegal to have oral sex. Any kind of sex or anything of sexual nature would be considered illgeal.

Q: My husband has asked me for a three-some well not really, just said it was one of his fantasies. He says he is content with never having one, he just really would want to and the pure mention of it gets both of us excited. My problem is, I am very jealous over him. I have considered giving him one for his birthday but the thought of him having sex with another woman seriously pisses me off(except for in my fantasies). I know this should tell me not to do it but I want him to get what he has always wanted. He is very very very good to me.. Any Input?
I don't believe you should do this, because you seem VERY uncomfortable with it and this probably end up being something that you'll regret!
For one thing, you said that the thought makes you jealous. Well, if you fulfill this wish, it could cause trouble in the long run. Like:
(1.) Your relationship with your husband could chnage from positive to negative.

and............

(2.) It could cause persistent fighting in your relationship. Such as, you may think he talked you into an uncomfortable situation.

Just remember that sometimes fantasies are more exciting if they remain that way,.........a fantasy and nothing else.

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Hey everyone, my name is Summer. I have a younger sibiling, a sister, Sierra (Faith). I enjoy listening to music, hanging out with my friends,playing volleyball, dancing, partying, and of course, giving advice! I have a boyfriend, Tyler. I love you!

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