My friend's birthday is coming up. She'll be 15. I asked her what she wanted and she said she wants me to kiss her (we aren't going out). I only see her once a day at school and we just hug, say hi, and go eat at our different tables. She said she wants me to kiss her on the lips. When and how should I kiss my friend?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? headfonephreak15 answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 4:50 pm: Well i think you should look at it in 2-4 ways:
Way1:
When she says she wants to kiss her on the lips question either the facts saying she proably wants to go out with you, if you should french kiss her you kno like tounge touch, regular kiss, if you really like her and want to, if she has a great personality and isnt snobby go for it and if she does have a bad personality don't.
Way2: tell her how you feel if you like her or not ask her how she feels if you feel the same way as in you both love eachother go for which ever way of kissing you feel like as listed in way on.
Way3: Do you think she really is pulling your leg or she really likes you if you chose you think she really likes you think is she popular and are you popular because if you aren't but she really like you and you feel the same way nows your chance to shine, be popular, and maybe go out with a really great girl that possibly has a great personality and sense of humor etc..
Well basically depends where you want this to go. It pretty much sounds like she likes you so if you want to date her go with the romantic walk/alone time suggested by people below.
If not tread veeery carefully coz it sounds like you could break her heart a little! If you want to just stay friends just go for a light-hearted peck on the lips in a semi-public place but preferably not somewhere her friends are all standing around ready to analyse whether you like her.x [ ScratchesOnTheWall's advice column | Ask ScratchesOnTheWall A Question ]
streetcarp answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 1:57 am: sounds like someone likes you!
on her birthday i suggest something like greeting her with a happy birthday, put your arms out for a hug but keep her in your arms and look into her eyes. if she doesn't pull away then lean in and kiss her, softly. lips are the key to a great kiss, not tongue.
xokaylanicoleox answered Wednesday May 3 2006, 1:11 am: Hehe, unlike the two below me.
I think that's adorable that you're willing to go through with her wish for her birthday for her. So sweet.
&honestly, I think that you should find a way to get her alone on her birthday, either in a room, or take a walk if trying to get her alone doesn't work. &just talk to her and reach in for the kill. There is no right or wrong way to kiss her. But you could probably ask her first if she is sure that's what she wants. If she says yes .. do it then. If the kiss leads to more than a peck on the lips, then so be it. Go with the moment, don't think too much into it. Thinking much more into it will only frighten you. Plus, she'll go along with whatever you do .. so no worries.
x3candiigrl answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 10:50 pm: uhh dude... she could be kidding around. Ask he what she really wants and get that for her... and then if shes serious jus kiss her real quick. But if you dont feel right doing it then dont... especially since you guys barely know each other [ x3candiigrl's advice column | Ask x3candiigrl A Question ]
BlondBritBrit answered Tuesday May 2 2006, 10:33 pm: i think she seems a bit stalker-ish, but oh well. Kiss her when it feels like the right time. Ya, i know thats cheesy, but its true. As far as how; I wouldn't try to make it too romantic. she seemd like she would get clingy and automatically think you 2 were "meant to be". What would be even worse would be if she thought u two were 'together'. Well anyways, close your eyes and don't go in for the tounge.
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