Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please!
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 1:58 pm: I have the same problem with me and my best friend, it sucks. If he's worth probably losing your friendship, then go out with him. Other than that just stay friends with him. Good luck!
orphans answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 1:33 pm: tell Tyler that u like him but u have to talk to ur friend first. she might be a little mad that u didn't say u liked him until he asked u out but if she's as good a friend as she sounds (since u've been friends for so long) she will PROBABLY understand. but she might be hurt that he likes u and not her. so respect that. hope u can go out wit him witout ur friend being too hurt.
p8ntballkt answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 12:27 pm: well this is what you need to do, you need to tell him how you feel but say that you need to talk to your friend first, and then if your best friend really cares about you, then i think she will let you date him, because she should understand how you feel about this boy and if not then thats her fault but you should go for it girl! [ p8ntballkt's advice column | Ask p8ntballkt A Question ]
x1xRock_Faeriex3x answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:47 am: My best advice is, don't do it, if your best friend likes him more than you do then do not go there, become friends with him, that way you can still hang out with him and stuff, and your friend will eventually stop liking him, and when that happens, then you can go out with him [ x1xRock_Faeriex3x's advice column | Ask x1xRock_Faeriex3x A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:11 am: Tell your friend you really like him. MAke sure she knows how you feel. You also like him too, she can't have everyone. Adn maybe if you say no to Tyler he may ask your friend. So ask if shes ok with it. And then tell Tyler your answer! Hope I helped! Good luck! Rate me please!
ScooteySkater90 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 10:08 am: dont go out with him. friendships last longer and are better than a stupid probabliy 1 month relationship. if he comes between you and ur friend. just say no i cant or something [ ScooteySkater90's advice column | Ask ScooteySkater90 A Question ]
Tessa_18 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:48 am: You should talk to ur friend and explain that u really like him and that he likes u too. Make sure that shes okay with the situation because u dont want to lose ur best friend. [ Tessa_18's advice column | Ask Tessa_18 A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:28 am: Talk to your friend ask her if its alright if you go out with him.Tell her that you really liek him alot too but you didnt want to tell her because you didnt want ot ruin her chances either.Let her know you really dont want to hurt her.Hope i helped. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
cutie_babee answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 7:58 am: well be honest with your friend I think it's time she knows that you liked him alot and he likes you and he asked you out...and tell her like I didn't want to tell you cuz I was so scared that u'd be mad at me plz forgive me I love so much he asked me out yesterday and I want to say yes but I need postly ur aproval...because no offense your friend never had him so she doesn't own him she can't stop you from dating the guy you love just don't make her feel jealous cuz that fucks up to whole concept...hope I helped [ cutie_babee's advice column | Ask cutie_babee A Question ]
Roxybabii922 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:14 am: Ask your best friend how she would feel if you went out with him, if you don't care what your best friend feels and you go out with him you will probably lose your best friend, if she says something like "ohh i dont care go ahead" more than likely she doesnt want you to, maybe try and find her another guy to like if you REALLY want to go out with this guy... [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
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