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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18
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Well.. I am in this situation. My b/f of 2 and a half years moved and we only see each other once a month.We were broken up, but when he came home to visit..it was like we were still dating. We held hands and kissed and etc.So..we're back together now. But before, when I would say I wanted to get back together, he would say he couldn't date me right now. But you know..someone told me that maybe he was making sure he could take care of himself before he had to take care of someone else.Which makes sense if you think about it. So..I guess he finally realized he could and is back with me now. So Ihope things work out for you too!!
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I was kinda in the same situation as u. My bf split up with me last december but nothing really changed it always felt like we were still together. Anyway I waited and told him that I was getting fed up with the situation and eventually he asked me out again and we are now back together.
To me it sounds like ur ex bf is scared, maybe hes scared of getting commited so young but eventually if he really loves u then he will come back to u. Just make sure u keep telling him how much u love him, but dont pressure him coz it will just make him back off.
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He probably just needs time to think and clea rhe head. Maybe he's trying to see if his feelings stay the same to make sure its real. He seems like a good guy and you two do seem like you have something special goin on. Give him some time to figure things out.. maybe he's scared to get in a relationship at this point. Just let him figure everything out and see what comes in the end =) *amber*
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hey.maybe he needs time to think about things.it seems like both of you are very much inlove but just need time to think about it.yea love is confusing but thats whats awesome about love, the anticapation.just take things slow love will come to you.....hope i helped.xoxojay
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give him some time....im going through the same thing....ur in love w/ him....and he is but he hasnt really noticed it yet....give him a lil while....thats what i've been doing....and i think she's starting to relize she loves me.
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aw thats so sweet!I think he might b scared to b bac in a relationship.Or mayb he enjoys having a good friend like u.Im like so jealus right now lol.Ur lucky to have such a sweet guy friend like that.Well i hope this helped!Much <33
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I think it's obvious that he has feelings for you, but I think he's a bit overwhelmed by how strong those feelings are. So it's easier for him to deal with it if ya'll are "just friends". He just needs a little time to come to terms with his feelings. Just be patient with him and everything will work out.
Hope I've helped and please feel free to drop any other questions into my inbox.
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Oy, ok um well let's see, why don't you ask him why he's like "I love you" then hes like "Let's be friends" try and figure out what is up with that. And if he really and truly loves you he will have an answer and hopefully it will be "I love you" and if it isn't I'm really sorry, but if it is that then you can always still hook up with him and shit.
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Well....men in general are confussing as hell. . .but if I was in your situation, I would feel really excited taht he said get back together and all but if he keeps throwing in that shit about friends, lay it out for him and ask WTF IS UP!
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3 words 4 ya hun..and it isnt "I love you"...It's..."guy are idiots"!!..They're too dumb to relize what we are..and what we give them..Guys these days all they care about is " Sex, Sex and more Sex!!" its stupid...but 100% true! - hope I helped
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from what youve given me it kinda sounds like hes playing you. now i dont have all the info so i could very well be wrong. still it sounds kind of suspicious if hes going back and forth like that. how much do you act like your still bf and gf? additional info would be nice ill be sure to come back to this question or you could drop one in my inbox
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well this boi seems to really like you nd well i think hes afraid .. it hard to beleive sometimes but bois get scared of getttin hurt too but jus talk to him bout it .. talk to him bout how you feel nd talk to him bout wats goin to happen wit yall .. cause if you love eachother then you should be together but frome wat u seee it seems as if this boi is afraid.. so good luck nd i hopi helped .. *MEgan
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Girl..you need to talk to that boy and tell him to make up his mind.Does he wanna be w/ you or not? And if so ask him when.Because I don't think you wanna wait around for a couple YEARS of your life and then find out he is in love w/ some other girl. So communicate w/ him.Talk to him about it. GOOD LUCK! (tell me what happens k?)
xOXo tasha
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