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hey! I was wondering if anyone had a dance team at their middle school. 3 of my friends and I are starting one this year and are sort of like the coaches/captins cuz we have to make up the dances, do tryouts and all that. We didnt know how much we would really do with the dance team though cuz all the other teams at our school are just cheerleading (they cheer during the games and go to competition), baseball, soccer, and basketball. We knew we would try to go to competition, but if thats only a couple times during the year or whatever what else would we do? (link)
at my school the dance team does some stuff in between half time and stuff. sometimes they do that with the cheerleaders


OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!! (link)
Think of it this way. . .if you and him were going out, then you would be the girlfriend feeling sad while he flirts with anotehr gilr behind your back. most likely he will cheat on you if you do go out. keep that in mind and find a new guy


i know this boy and we dated for 8 months 2 years ago then we didnt talk for 2 years and then we started talking and we botrh started liking each other and like i moved to vegas from ga and im goioing bak in about 10 montha and we decieded to have sex then we got in a huge fighta nd he still thinks i will have sex with him whne i come bak what sohuld i do i really do love him im not sure if he loves me (link)
well, why are you gonna move and then move back you decide to have sex with him? wtf is that saying? im easy and you want some ass so lets screw? no, just becauses u dated a long time ago, dont back and screw teh guy, and he obviously doesnt lvoe you, i dont think you love him. i think you just want sex. . .sorry if thats to...harsh


I'm not to sure what this falls under but I wanted peoples thoughts. I love kids, honest to God they are the best thing that has happened in my life (I don't have any). This lady at my church is having a baby in Oct. and has a 10 month old who is smaller for his size, anyways he will be staying with us more then likely. I have a two story house along with basement stairs and breakable stuff. Our house is not by any means baby-proof. Does anyone have any good ideas that don't cost a ton of money because this is probably only going to happen once and I don't expect on having children for another 15 years...LOL THANKS!
Megan (link)
i suggest gates to block off the stairs and maybe make one room baby safe so you can play with teh baby in that rooma dn for the rest of teh house, you have to constantly watch them


my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents? (link)
yea def!


for a 7 year-old kid who's nice and who would listen to me (easy babysitting) how much shopuld i charge? (link)
5 or 6


Um, I like having sex, I'm not going to lie. But the last time I did, the guy I did it with kind of... made me have anal sex with him. And I tried to say it hurt but he didn't stop. I said it loud but when I told him afterwards, he said he didn't hear me. I cried afterwards b/c it hurt so bad. Is it my fault? I didn't want to do it... I feel gross. What do you think?

xoxo Alyssa* (link)
well u said no, i dont think its your fault, but i dont see how he made you? im sure you took your own pants off


okay so i was at my cottage and this guy was like chillin with me and my sis and my cuzins and so we were chillin and my sis was beggin 4 his sn!! i wasn't even really interested but he gave it 2 me secretly!! doe sthis mean he likes me?? or does it mean he wants to be friends?? (link)
he just might have a crush!


well i have these two friends. in fact they are my best friends. we are all bffs and so there is one girl named alissa and the other one is micheal. well alissa went out with micheal for a while and then they broke up. then alissa went out with micheals best guy friend, dan. then they broke up and like now alissas mom told her she couldnt have a bf. well now micheal is the only guy that alissas mom likes so she said that micheal was the only one alyssa can go out with. now i just know they are going to go out. i mean it is going to ruin everything because like i sorta like micheal but he only thinks i do as a friend...and i am not going to tell him that i do because i just cant and that wouldnt change anything beetween us or anything so yea. they havent gone out yet but like i kinda am getting the hint from both of them that they are so idk...someone plz help me. i dont want them to go out. i am second choice. i even know it! alissa told me that micheal said that and now im just so...not really jealous but jealous...if you know what i mean. any advice? (link)
wait it out? they will break up eventually and then u can get the guy and then alissa will be the jealous one! Then she might just kno how you felt when she went out with him. I kno that sounds like a really bad thing to do, but some friends are bitches!


What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples. (link)
Well if u say "sorry i ahve to go, talk to ya later" she might get the hint that u dont want to talk 24 7 and she will prob not call as much!


i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18 (link)
Well....men in general are confussing as hell. . .but if I was in your situation, I would feel really excited taht he said get back together and all but if he keeps throwing in that shit about friends, lay it out for him and ask WTF IS UP!




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