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What should I do??
OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!!
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hmm.. well if he really did like his friend, he wouldnt be flirting with you or anything. so dont worry! you dont even know this . and if he does break up with her, it may not even be just because of you. but love only comes so often in life.. so if it comes along take a risk. just dont worry about this other , its not like they've broken up YET! hope i helped!
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this is a tuffy....u shuld prob juss lay off 4 now. if he has a gf tha best thing 2 do wuld juss let him choose wut he wants. stay close friends with him, but make sure thats all for while their going out. its not good 2 mess wit a man whos alredy got a gurl ;) hope i helped :)
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I wouldn't worry about him breaking up with her for you. Cause if he can break up with her for another girl, then he never loved her in the first place.So it would actually be best that he went ahead and did it now..then let her think something he doesn't feel.So, just keep talking to him and seen how things work out. And if he likes you and wants to break up with his girl, let him!!Then you can let him fall in love with you!
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The best thing you could do is wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend, not over you though, like if the break up because they don't spend that much time together or they don't have feelings for each other, stuff like that.
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i think you should try and wait until he breaks up with his current gf but for now dont interfer with there relationship .. i hope i was of some help :D
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i suggest that you should wait until he breaks up with her, or move on to another. hope i helped.
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what u should do is find another boyfriend while ur holding on for all u know she might leave him and if she doesnt after awhile u can use the boyfriend u have to replace him it just takes time and take it slow.
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if he can do that to his own gf, like meeting another girl at the mall, ask for her number, call her everyday, and FLIRT with her.....then he can do the SAMEEE thing to you!!!! i know u prolly thing, no its different, or no hes different...but trust me, it happens to every one of us..plus thats kinda bad karma, if i were u id try stop talking to him..its not worth it in the end..
love kristin
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see who he likes better
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heyy sweetie what i think you should do is talk to 2 him and i wouldnt take it any further because if he has a g/f n he asked for your # hes probaly a pimp hop i helped
Amber xoxo
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Think of it this way. . .if you and him were going out, then you would be the girlfriend feeling sad while he flirts with anotehr gilr behind your back. most likely he will cheat on you if you do go out. keep that in mind and find a new guy
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Ok, since he does have a girlfriend, I think that you should respect that territory, and make some space between you and him. I understand you flirt on the phone a lot, but maybe you shouldn't talk on the phone so much. His girlfriend probably has no idea who you are, or even that her boyfriend is talking to another girl. Tell him about this, and if he pushes anything or says not to worry about it. Go from there. I don't mean to sound harsh or anything, its just that these situations can get worse before the get better, if they even do. You don't want to get yourself caught up in something that could cause you a lot of problems later. You may like him a lot, but try to distance yourself from him. This will be healthier for you, and you can maybe get yourself to know other people.
I hope I helped. I apologize again if I offended you, though. Hang in there. If you have any more questions or something, please feel free to ask.
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Just be patient because if he has feelings for you, then his other relationship won't work out. But have enough respect for yourself to not let anything go beyond friendship until he is single.
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if he has a girlfriend and he's flirting with another girl, then that's not a good sign. if he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, then be prepared for her to be very jealous and say things about you.. depending on how cool she is about the whole situation. well good luck, hope it all works out! =)
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well of course if hes making enough effort to call u everyday he likes u i think its a matter of time just a matter of time.........
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