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i was thinking of babysitting for people..(most likely people i dont know) with a friend of mine..this way the job is easier. Is this a good idea? Do you think i`ll be successful? How should i get perfect strangers to trust me to babysit their kids...any tips? thank you :)

before anyone will trust you, you need experience. first take a babysitting class. there, they'll show you how to care for the kids you're watching. after you're finished with your class, try babysitting for people you know. this way, adults will know that you have experience, and they'll be able to trust you with their kids more. good luck! =)

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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ...

seeing other people might be a good idea. it doesn't seem like your relationship will work out, because you've already broken up a few times. and since you're going into high school, it's probably better to take a break from each other. you might meet new people, and maybe you'll find a guy who you KNOW likes you and you won't ever have to doubt him! talk to your boyfriend, and if you decide to separate for awhile, be nice about it, and try to remain friends! good luck babe! =)

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im a 15/f and i want some job ideas. What kind of places would hire me..whats the interview like?
- any ideas would be greaat...thank u!

babysitting is the perfect job. you can type up some flyers and post them around town. if you don't want to babysit, i know the mcdonalds here hires when you're 14, and a few gas stations do, too. i think babysitting is the best choice though. if it's at night, once the kids are asleep, you can do homework and get other things done. hope i helped. =)

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I'm 14 and going into high school this school year. I have been friends with this girl lets just call her Liss since...the end of 6th grade. We became best friends ever in 7th grade and then everything with her other friends went downhill from there. They all hate me and some have now threatened to kill me. I'm not scared, that has nothing to do with this but i'm making a point. I thinks he thinks she can't like me anymore cuz this has been going on awhile and she doesn't wanna get into trouble with her other friends when they do the same thing to her as me. COnfusing i know. Lately, she's been making exscuses not to hang out, she adds me in her profile if i ask her cuz thats how her pro works but she takes me out the next day and never puts me back in. I've told her this bothers me and she always makes up some dumbass exscuse like I had to take someone out there wasnt room. And i'm like i'm ur best friend take someone who isnt. I never said that but i sure did think it. The point is...i think her and i are starting to stop being friends and i dont want to. She's a wonderful person and one of my best friends and i don't wanna lose her to the people who she *THINKS* are her friends. They do seriously threaten to beat and kill me and her..but they are cowards and dont even have the guts to look me in the eye. They wont hurt us no matter what they say but i think she might be scared and stop being my friend just cuz of them. Help me..i'm all confused!

well, you need to talk to her right away. tell her that you've been there for her and a true friend through everything, but you're not going to sit around and wait for her anymore. don't ask her to pick sides, because it seems like she's confused right now, so she just might make the wrong decision and choose them over you. and while she's with the other people, don't sit around at home or anything.. keep yourself busy with other friends or activities. at least you'll get your mind off of it for awhile... hope that helped!! =)

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Remember 2 years ago when those lace-up jeans came out?? Like they laces up either in the back or on the sides or in the front. Are those still in style or did thery go out a year ago?

they're not really in style right now, but if you like them, then go ahead and wear them! who knows? maybe if people who were too scared to wear them see you wearing them, then they'll wear them too and you'll start the trend again! =)

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OK, I met this guy at the mall and we got to know eachother. He calls me almost everyday and we flirt ALL the time. The thing is, he already has a girlfriend. I think he likes me and all but i don't want him to break up with her for me but i REALLY like him. What should i do?!?! PLease help me!!!

if he has a girlfriend and he's flirting with another girl, then that's not a good sign. if he breaks up with his girlfriend for you, then be prepared for her to be very jealous and say things about you.. depending on how cool she is about the whole situation. well good luck, hope it all works out! =)

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how do u make pie

http://www.pastrywiz.com/archive/category/pie.htm

go there =)

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This is for my friend there is this guy that is one of her good friends and he makes her cry by bringing up like bad memories and picking fights with her .. she's very emotional my friend .. and I always tell her that if he treats you like this he's not worth it and she understands but somehow she can't put him behind her .. like he calls and she forgives him she's wayy too nice and ends up getting stepped on but i don;t know if she realizes this and i dunno if i should tell her like i said she's emotional i dunno if she'll take it the wrong way .. thanx !

you need to tell her, babe. if she's very emotional, she might be mad at you at first, but she'll come around and realize that you're right. i'm sure you don't want to see her getting hurt in the end, so just talk to her. make sure to tell her that you're not trying to be rude or anything, and try to be as nice as you can about it. hope it works out!

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i know this boy and we dated for 8 months 2 years ago then we didnt talk for 2 years and then we started talking and we botrh started liking each other and like i moved to vegas from ga and im goioing bak in about 10 montha and we decieded to have sex then we got in a huge fighta nd he still thinks i will have sex with him whne i come bak what sohuld i do i really do love him im not sure if he loves me

don't feel pressured to have sex with him! if you feel like it isn't right, or you're not ready, or have any doubts AT ALL, then don't do it. and i'm assuming you haven't seen him in awhile, so you don't know what he's like or who he's been with. in the end, if you decide to have sex with him, use a condom! be safe! hope that helped you! =)

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ok....theres this kid that is going out w/ the girl i love...and he knows that i still love her...(she's my ex)....and he makes fun of me b cuz he's going out w/ her and im not....he makes up all these lies saying that she said them...but she didnt just to piss me off. i want to kick his ass...but then she'll hate me forever....every one else says to forget what she thinks about it and just do it....but i dont know what to do.....HELP ME!!

if you beat him up, chances are you're ex won't be too happy with you... maybe talk to her and find out if what he's telling you she said really is true. and as much as you like her, try not to come between them. in the meantime, keep yourself occupied with other friends or activities. that way you'll get your mind off of it for awhile. good luck =)

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There is this guy that I REALLY like a lot, he's my friend and all and he said that he would hook up with me and he's hooked up with my other friend before and it meant nothing to him, I'm afraid of hooking up with him in case I get my hopes too high just to have them crash and burn. I really like this guy but I am afraid of getting hurt because it will mean nothing to him if I hook up with him and I really don't like that fact. PLEASE HELP!

before you even think of hooking up with him, you should talk to your friend and see if she would mind. now if his relationship with your friend wasn't serious, then i don't think she would mind too much, but just make sure!! just remember, chicks before dicks! hope it all works out for you hun! =)

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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

tell her that by hurting herself, she's also hurting others. just because her uncle died, that doesn't mean that she shouldn't be able to live... that just shows that she should appreciate the little things in life. and i'm sure her uncle wouldn't want her dead! hope it all works out babe!

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Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp

talk to her about it, babe. i don't think you should have to doubt your best friend... and if you do, then there's something wrong between you two. when teresa is with other friends, keep yourself occupied with other people. i'm not telling you to replace her, but it'll get your mind off of things if you keep yourself busy. =)

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I think I like one of my closest friends and I think she just might like me back. But it's tough because I don't really want to say anything me being a girl myself... Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just ignore it?

i think you should definitely tell her. if she's your close friend, you should be able to be open with her. and you shouldn't have to keep things from her. you'll never know what could have been if you don't tell her houw you feel. who knows? maybe she'll end up liking you back! =)

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