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Me (14) and my current boyfriend(14) have a had an on and off kind of relationship. like we've broken up 3 different times, but things seem like they're going down hill again for a 4th time. He's stopped saying he loves me when we get off the phone or off line. We dont' see each other all that much cuz he lives 45 minutes away from me ... and that kind of presents a problem. Especially now that im going into highschool. Its like a whole new world of oppurtunitys. He to is going into in highschool adn i think things are pretty much coming to an end between us, and that breaks my heart but at the same time im relived because i can be open to new experiences ... i love him but im not sure he's feeling what he says he feelings, how he says he feels and how he acts on those feelings are to different things .. i just don't know anymore ...
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well if i were you, id come right out and ask him if you and him could ever really be together.. if you could make it in the longrun. if he says "no" or "i dont know" then break up with him. if its a "yes" then he obviously likes you for you and wants to keep this going. remember your going into highschool and there are plenty of more boys there too.. ones who live closer and might be more clear as to what they want. hope i helped!
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I think that u should take a break from each other, even if it's really painful, u should take a break so that way u can find out if he really loves u, I mean when u get to skool just look @ his reactions around u and if u want to date otha guys then go ahead so that way u can find out wat to do.
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me to am having a problem(14)all you have to do is talk to him. see how he feels and if things dont work out than you can be really good friends
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Talk to him. Ask him if he cares for you like he says he does.And if he says no, then you just go out with other guys. I know that it isn't that easy, but think of it this way...if it's meant to be, it will come back to you.If you love him..you can do this. Hope everything works out for ya!!
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Its prolly hard bein in a long distance relationship so u should ask him how he feels bout all this and ask him duz he care bout u and duz he love u and iz he comitted to bein in a long distance relationship with u or would u betta off as juss friends stuff like that juss talk to him adn be straight up and tell him wats on your mind hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*
Caitlin*
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it's probably really hard to be in a relationship like that cuz not only is it long distance u are also having doubts on how he feels for u. i would say break up with him, just tell him that u don't think it's gonna work out cuz things have changed A LOT and ur not sure how he feels 4 u anymore. it's time to meet someone new. hope i helped.
~Reenie~
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long distance relationships never work out in the first place until youre a lot older. yea i agree highschool does present more opportunities to meet new people and all that good stuff. but one way or another, 2 people living almost an hour apart when they dont have cars or a way to see each other frequenlty just isnt that good of an idea. it'll be good for you 2 to see each other every now and then or something. but bascily you just have to let it go.
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seeing other people might be a good idea. it doesn't seem like your relationship will work out, because you've already broken up a few times. and since you're going into high school, it's probably better to take a break from each other. you might meet new people, and maybe you'll find a guy who you KNOW likes you and you won't ever have to doubt him! talk to your boyfriend, and if you decide to separate for awhile, be nice about it, and try to remain friends! good luck babe! =)
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Ask him if he actually means what he says, ask him if he still cares and if not see if he wants to take a break for awhile to see how things go without eachother and see if you are really what eachother wants
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