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loosing a parent
Its been almost 3 years since my father died. And its just not getting any easier. I still grieve and have resentment to god for taking him. I sometimes take my anger out on my friends because i have no where to direct it, after wards i feel horrible. If anyone else has lost a parent and knows htings that helps the pain lessen that'd be helpful if you coudl share it. I know the pain won't go away but i just wish i wasn't constantly sad, crying or taking my anger out on my friends.
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hi, i lost my father too.I'm very sorry to hear about yours, and I know how u feel. It helps to write in a journal. Or maybe you could see a therapist and talk about how u feel. Or there are groups for kids/teens who have lost a loved one, maybe you could join one of those, so then you could share your feelings with people who have the same situation. Sometimes excersizing helps because you get your anger and energy help. I'm here for you any time you wanna talk.
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Hey, In April my best fren died n my best fren wasnt lyk from skol but my gPa (granpa)! we were very clos but it hurts bc wen i c pictures or some1s talking about him i get very emotinal. He lived with me so i go down stairs n spend most of my tym there during the day. Instead of taking it out on ur frens u shod count to 10 n hit a pillow or u shod do things that he liked to do or u did together.So you shod try to memba the good things n stuff that u did with him n think its not ur fault bc it wasnt. U shodnt feel sad or cry all the tym bc that isnt good for u. Its okay to cry. But if none of this helps ask lyk an adult or go to a physcologist (howeva u spell it cuz i cant spell) i had to 4 a lil while n they help alot. Hope I was some help to u!! Millie**
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Aww...I'm sorry to hear about your dad. But crying and being sad isn't going to do anything for you. I'm sure your father wouldn't want you to cry either. You don't have to worry about your father anymore,hes in heaven, a better place than we are at now. SO smile and be happy!=)
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Try and do something to keep you busy, that way you dont have time to think about your dad being gone, just try and think about the positive things in your life, it will be hard at first, but it will get easier for you
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Hey, Im sorry to hear that* :( My dad just died around last chrismas so I know what your going through.I was 12 when he died and now Im thirteen. I can understand its real hard on you.I live also with my mom and the good thing is we got through this together and were trying to be strong about this. I think you should try to talk to someone about this that will listen and I think you should let your friends take you places,cuz when your out with your friends,you should have a good time so it will make you happier. And theres always going to be that emptiness in your heart and mine too,but theres ways to make it feel better. I think your friends dont want to see you sad either so try to keep yourself busy with things.And I still cry about my dad too.But I believe he is in a *beautiful* place called Heaven :) If you NEED ANYTHING !! Im here for you !!! Thanx for asking and i will pray for you .xoxoxo -Melissa- ps. Aim me sometime if you can ** My sn is teenqueen21711 :)we can talk if you want :)
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Try not to think about it too much, remember that you need to move on, being sad won't bring your father back... Counselling from a professional might help you if you haven't already tried that...
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