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so..confused?
I'm 14 and going into high school this school year. I have been friends with this girl lets just call her Liss since...the end of 6th grade. We became best friends ever in 7th grade and then everything with her other friends went downhill from there. They all hate me and some have now threatened to kill me. I'm not scared, that has nothing to do with this but i'm making a point. I thinks he thinks she can't like me anymore cuz this has been going on awhile and she doesn't wanna get into trouble with her other friends when they do the same thing to her as me. COnfusing i know. Lately, she's been making exscuses not to hang out, she adds me in her profile if i ask her cuz thats how her pro works but she takes me out the next day and never puts me back in. I've told her this bothers me and she always makes up some dumbass exscuse like I had to take someone out there wasnt room. And i'm like i'm ur best friend take someone who isnt. I never said that but i sure did think it. The point is...i think her and i are starting to stop being friends and i dont want to. She's a wonderful person and one of my best friends and i don't wanna lose her to the people who she *THINKS* are her friends. They do seriously threaten to beat and kill me and her..but they are cowards and dont even have the guts to look me in the eye. They wont hurt us no matter what they say but i think she might be scared and stop being my friend just cuz of them. Help me..i'm all confused!
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This happens alot around that age it really really sux....ALOT!you should try to confront her about it and let her know whats on your mind and you dont want her to change or be scared because of her friends.You two sound really tight and if your as good as friends as you sound you'll be able to work it out.Dont feel bad i'm going through sorta the same thing my best friend hates me.I'm not sure really why either.If you need advice or just wanna talk my s/n is UnLuckyWishes3 or just drop something in my inbox.
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Ehh. This happens all the time. What you do is just sit down and have a nice long talk with your friend. Talk about what you've been through and how you've been there for each other. This may refresh her memory about how good of a friend you are but if that doesn't work. Then most likely, you'll just slowly drift away from each other. Sorry but that's how life is.
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Try to help her realize they if she keeps befriending them, then things are just going to get worse, show her how bad things are now, let her see things in your perspective
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well, you need to talk to her right away. tell her that you've been there for her and a true friend through everything, but you're not going to sit around and wait for her anymore. don't ask her to pick sides, because it seems like she's confused right now, so she just might make the wrong decision and choose them over you. and while she's with the other people, don't sit around at home or anything.. keep yourself busy with other friends or activities. at least you'll get your mind off of it for awhile... hope that helped!! =)
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talk to her, be like what is going on with you? i ahve been there for you, more than anyone else. if there was ever a side needed to be taken, you know i would have your back deffinately, no matter what anyone else said. who cares what they think, they dont run my life,a dn they sure as hell dont run yours.
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okay this is what you should fo u have to grab her andget her away from her "frineds" and talk to her and be like what is going on with you why do your "friends" hate me so much and stuff like that and tell her you don't like it if she hangs out with them b/c they look like trouble or something like that and let them say what they say there only saying that b/c thats the only way they can feel good about themselves, and if they say something just say something that will confuse them and then they will shut up or just compleatly ignor them
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