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Should I tell her?
I think I like one of my closest friends and I think she just might like me back. But it's tough because I don't really want to say anything me being a girl myself... Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just ignore it?
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You could talk to her and tell her how you feel and before you tell her that tell her that if she doesn't feel the same way thats fine because you dont want to lose your friendship.Or if your really afraid about losing your friendship you could talk to her about who she likes.Just maybe start talking about school or home and gradually like get into the conversation and if you think she's hinting towards you and you think you should go ahead and tell her.Hope i helped and everything works out.
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you might want to just keep your relationship as it is as friends because she might be intersted in guys not women and if u tell her there might be a chance it could reuion your relatinship just wait awhile
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i would tell her how u fell after all some people think its cute. Or u could say look i really really like i have been for awhile i just couldnt say it because i thought 8it might ruin our friend ship but if u dont wanna go up to the next level cant we plz atleast be friends.
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I think you should tell her. Never give up a chance to tell someone you like them. You'll regret it.
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thats a toughy.. ppl these days are pretty execpting, but others are ignorant and wont except that..if i were u, id like hint being a lesbian...not physically..but maybe when ur walkin point out a girl and be like shes sooo pretty huh?? and see whut she says..ya know stuff like that..and if u feel like shes like that, then id tell her..but if she isnt, unfortunatly iwouldnt tell her cause she would prolly be scared off...
love kristin
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Props to you for asking such a personal and mature question.
I think you should have a discussion with you friend and find out the 411 about her latest crush, and then hint on that you might have feelings for a girl and see how she reacts. If she is a true blue, she will accept the fact that you might be bi-sexual...or maybe even a lesbian. The truth is that many girls, and guys, have a hard time determining their sexuality, and need time to sort out their sexual prefrence. Give it some thought, and if you feel that you are ready to share your feelings, give it a shot. Chances are things won't change between you, and if they do, she wasn't your close friend to begin with.
Let me know what happens babe and good luck <3
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definatley tell her! i mean, if she doesn't feel the same way just sya " Well, i just wanted you to know how i feel about you but our friendship is the best ever and i don't want anything to change" and if she does feel the same way about you then thats just great on your behalf.
I hope things turn out great for you!! :) good luck!
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first off- you need to make sure she likes you in the way you like her. this may sound dumb but im not sure of your age, so sometimes younger teens don't always know who's straight and who's not. if you are 100% sure the two of you are in the same boat (by expression), then you should come out and tell her. if she's really such a great friend, then she'll understand even if she doesnt like you. if you think she might overreact... wait a while and test little questions on her... maybe one being "haha what if i told you i liked you more than a friend" (act as if a joke) and see what she says. this may not be the most helpful advice, but im giving you all i can think of. hope things work out! leave one in my inbox if you need any other questions answered! =] -ask_anything
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tell her how u feel if she doznt lyk u bac tell her u still want 2 b friendz dont risk ur friendship but let out ur feelings good luck :)
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Tell her.
-xXoBrianna
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I don't think you should say anything to her just yet. First, you should try to figure out how she feels for sure.
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i think you should definitely tell her. if she's your close friend, you should be able to be open with her. and you shouldn't have to keep things from her. you'll never know what could have been if you don't tell her houw you feel. who knows? maybe she'll end up liking you back! =)
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