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Last Update: August 15, 2004
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you dont know who this is hahaha (link)
ya your right i dont! lol!


a friend of mine is a goth all she talks about is death n things like that i dont no wether 2 keep pretending that i like this or just leve her behind n just never talk 2 her??
a goth (link)
well it depends on if she is a good friend or not if you think that she is worth you pretending that you like this goth stuff them do it but if you don't think you can handle one more talk about death then you should sit your friend down and tell her that you are not comfortable talking to her about all this goth stuff! i hope she understands!


i'm bulimec no1 know except me and now you! i want to get help but i can't tell my mom because i think she will be ashamed of meand all of my friend will either think i'm joking or they wont want to be my friends anymore!!!
im totally confused!!PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
you should tell your mom and then i bet she can figure out away to help you! she might be disappointed at first but shes you mom and she loves you so she will definitly want to help you!


my best friend doesn't take jokes very well . everytime i tell 1 she finds out a way 2 makeit offinsive! i can't tellin if shes joking or not either! (link)
just dont tell joke around her tell them around your other friends that can take a joke!


a friend (anonamous) is goind out with this guy. everytime she isn't w/ him and i am he starts hitting on me and i dont know if i should tell her cus i think she'll just think i want her b/f
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you should definitly tell you friend i bet she would want to know and you should also talk to her b/f and tell him that you are not interested in him or in hurting your friend!


my friends is a realt slut she gets all the guyz and i dont understand why. she doesn't have good style of good taste at all! should i be a slut 2?

love slutty (link)
no definitly not you shouldn't become a slut! and i bet the guys like her because she has a great personality! your guy will come!


a friend of mine just had her period, she smells really bad, she should wear a tampon but she doesn't like them and she hasn't told her momyet either! i wouldn't feel comfortable talking to her about it. i havn't had mine so i think she would say i don't know what i am talking about what whould i do? (link)
just tell her that she should maybe get a more heavy duty pad if she doesn't like tampons!! and buy her some realy good smelling perfume so she will spray it on herself i doubt she will think you don't know what your talking about! we can all smell and we all saw "the MOVIE" lol but really i doubt she will!


my best friends dad just got back from jail for raping a girl and i'm really uncomfortable hanging out with her at her house now! first oof all cuz she told me her dad was dead but now that he's home she said she was sry but she thot that i wouldn't be her friend anymore if i know her dad was in jail! so i forgave her but i'm still really uncomfortable at her house ! what should i do i don't want to lose her because she is a great friend and she has always been a great friend but i am realy uncomfortable wat whould i do?
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OMG!! that is very scary! if she is your great friend then you should talk to her about and tell her that you would rather have her over at your house! i bet she will understand!


everytime my friend comes over to my house she has really bad amnners infront of my parents then when she leaves they tell me that i should talk to her about it but i just can't
HELP!! (link)
i agree with your mom you should talk to her or just say in like a funny voice you have terrible manners it will make her think about but she will still know that you are joking! if it doen't bother you though just leave it and tell your mom that if she has a problem with for her to talk to you friend!!

HoPe It HeLpS!!


my bestest friend in the whole world is a real geek. i am more on the popular side whenever she comes around everyone talks behind her back but i no its not good to change a person

The CHANGER! (link)
if you and this gurl are are bff's the you shouldn't care! she sounds like a great person and your right you should never change a person! and if you here ppl taling about your "best friend" then you should tell then that she is your best friend and that they shouldn't judge ppl by the way they look! hope it helps


my friend thinks that she is a really good singer but she isn't i dont know how to tell her that she isn't very good! i dont want to hurt her feelings and i dont want her to get embarrassed when she tries out for a solo or something!! what should i do? (link)
you should just sit down with your friend and tell her that she is really good at other things but you don't think singing is her passion and if she does get mad the tell her that you are sry but you thought that you was being a good friend by telling her because you didn't want her to embarrass heself!

HoPe It HeLpS!


my parent are divorced and they have been divorced for the longest time but my mom just got remarried and her new husband thinks is like my dad now!! but my mom is so happy and i don't want to tell her! please help me!

love he ain't my dad! (link)
dear ain't my dad,

i know exactly what you are going through my parents have been divorced since i was very young also! and my step mom is alway either a bitch or acts like she is my mom!! so i finally talked to my dad about it and i suggest you do the same with your mom. just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with your stepdad acting like he's your dad i definitly think she will understand!!

love shelz


my friend is a lesbian n she keeps hitting on me i dont want to stop being her friend \
wat should i do (link)
well just tell your friend that you don't feel comfortable with her "hitting on you"! but before you say that make sure she is actually a lesbian and not just joking around!!


I need help desperatly my friend is reely fat but she always wears very revaling clothes she always asks me how she looks n i cant let her embarrass herself anymore n i cant keep lying 2 her
revealing (link)
well all i can think of it that your a very caring friend! and i understand the situation that your in! you love your friend and you dont want to hurt her but you don't want her to get embarrassed! next time your fiend asks you some thing like what should i wear pick a shirt or shorts that are not as revealing!

i hope that helps you!!


there is this guy i like but he likes somebody else ,but he already knows that i like him and he says that he likes me too but that he still likes his girl friend a lot!! what should i do?

please reply soon!!

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well ask him how much he likes this girl because if he really likes you as much as he says he would break it off with his g/f and go with you !! so either move on but if you think that he's worth it the wait but you can't wait forever!


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