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This is for my friend there is this guy that is one of her good friends and he makes her cry by bringing up like bad memories and picking fights with her .. she's very emotional my friend .. and I always tell her that if he treats you like this he's not worth it and she understands but somehow she can't put him behind her .. like he calls and she forgives him she's wayy too nice and ends up getting stepped on but i don;t know if she realizes this and i dunno if i should tell her like i said she's emotional i dunno if she'll take it the wrong way .. thanx !
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Well.. what you should do is let her figure her feelings out for herself. I know you don't like to see her hurt, but it's the only way that things will get better.My friend tried to talk me out of a relationship with a guy and it almost ended our friendship. I mean not really ended.. but we were really mad at each other and we had never been like that before. So..I told her how I felt and she decided to let me do what I wanted. And so far, I'm pretty happy! So.. just let her dow hat she feels is right. Hope I helped!
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most guys are not worth crying oven, and the one that is wont make you cry. you really need to sit down and have a talk with her and tell her not to forgive him anymore.
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it's nice of you to be concerned and ask this for your friend. you sound like a great friend by the way you care. this guy sounds like a total jerk from what youve said. and your friend is very forgiving [ive been too forgiving at times as well] so you need to tell her to stop being stepped all over and give him the boot. if she doesnt listen to you, then at least youve tried. its her life and if she doesnt want to fix whats wrong- you cant do much other than comfort her. if you really want to get in the middle of things [not recommended] you could talk to this guy yourself and tell him how its making her so emotionally saddened. if you are really close to your friend, she'll be grateful in the end for caring about her feelings and her life. best of luck, hope my advice helps a little! =] -ask_anything
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you need to tell her, babe. if she's very emotional, she might be mad at you at first, but she'll come around and realize that you're right. i'm sure you don't want to see her getting hurt in the end, so just talk to her. make sure to tell her that you're not trying to be rude or anything, and try to be as nice as you can about it. hope it works out!
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