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I did a booboo....
Wellllll.......I have a boyfriend, and I love him with ALLLLLLLLL my heart, and trust me, I do...I'm not just some girl saying 'i love you' and not meaning it, he's everything to me. But...I'm 15, and I have never had a serious relationship until now...I'm the type of girl who goes out and does spontaneous stuff.....well ok a few weeks ago I started feeling REALLY tied down. It got to be the end of summer ya know and I just wanted to be FREEEE....and i ended up telling him i wanted to go on a break...while we were 'on a break' i kissed another guy. well that's what made me realize how much he REALLY meant to me, and the next day i talked to him and told him how much i really loved him and everything....but i left the part about kissing another guy out. i have a guilty conscious about it, and i really want to tell him, but at the same time i have this feeling it would only break us up.... n that's the LAST thing i want.... even if it didn't break us up he would totally lose my trust for obvious reasons, but we go to different schools and that's one of the things we HAVE to have....I dono what to do......there's no way he could find out but i dono if i should tell him or not...I know everyone would say 'just tell him it's better' and all that...but put urself in my position and think about what u'd really do, cuz it's a lot harder then to just tell him because it's the right thing to do...thanks in advance!
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just tell him if he really loved you he will under stand
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well it really depends on where u kissed him and y. c if my girlfriend i ever had one told me she kissed another guy i would wanna know where she kissed him and y if u can answer those questions i can help u w/ the rest.
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dont tell him, it seems like it did you good, you realized that you want to be with your boyfriend. telling him would jepordize that most guys wouldnt understand. really you didnt do anything wrong, you were on a break and for all you know he kissed some girl too and hes not going to tell you. its better that way. honesty is good but its also good to think about his feelings, telling him would hurt him alot mroe than not telling him.
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tell him the truth. the sooner the better. let him know how much u care bout him nd the kiss made u realize that. if he wants to break up jus let it go if he doznt believe how much u luv n care bout him tht means hes not da one 4 u. it may b hard 2 let go but ther is some 1 out there 4 u. nd ur gonna hav a lot of bfs until u find the one special guy. good luck :)
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I don't think you should tell him, and you have no reason to feel guilt. The kiss happened while you weren't technically together, so you weren't cheating on him. As long as you are not seeing the other guy then everything is okay. Look at it this way, if you hadn't kissed the other guy then you wouldn't have realized how much your boyfriend means to you.
If you feel like you absolutely must tell him, make sure it doesn't sound like a confession, because you didn't do anything wrong. Just say something like, "Remember when I said I needed to take a break, well I kissed this guy, but it felt so wrong. And I knew that I didn't want to be with anyone but you."
He'll probably still be pissed, but at least he'll know that you chose him.
(Sorry so long, but I hope I helped.)
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My best advice is don't tell him, I am a really great liar (I know that sounds weird) and the best tactic for lying is making yourself actually believe that you never kissed the guy and forget that you ever kissed him at all. That way you won't feel guilty because you think that you never kissed the other guy in the first place.
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hey girly....really....the best thing u can do is tell him the truth....thats what i'd want to hear
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