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Afraid


Question Posted Wednesday August 25 2004, 11:56 pm

There is this guy that I REALLY like a lot, he's my friend and all and he said that he would hook up with me and he's hooked up with my other friend before and it meant nothing to him, I'm afraid of hooking up with him in case I get my hopes too high just to have them crash and burn. I really like this guy but I am afraid of getting hurt because it will mean nothing to him if I hook up with him and I really don't like that fact. PLEASE HELP!

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Pequenodiablo126 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 4:47 pm:
Well.. I say try it. But just don't let yourself get too attached.Just hang out and do b/f g/f stuff.But if you can tell that it isn't going anywhere..end it. But if you get the vibe that he really likes you..just ask him what he's feeling.And chances are, he'll tell you. Hope I helped!

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orphans answered Thursday August 26 2004, 3:01 pm:
i think u should decide whether he's worth getting hurt over. if he's hooked up wit girls that didn't mean anything to him be4 he might do the same to u. hope i helped!

~Reenie~

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bRiAnNaLyNn22 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 3:09 am:
Hey!! if u think he would do that to you then i dont think u should do anythign with him :
I think u should talk to him and tell him that u truley like him and u want to start something and see what he says! and if he does hurt ya hunnie then u deserve way WAY better and i hope u kno that! <3

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russianspy1234 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:49 am:
you want to go into a relationship without the risk of getting hurt? welcome to planet earth no relationship is without risk, you gotta ask yourself is it worthwhile? do you like him enough to risk getting hurt? the risk will always be there sorry.

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PuReLuVeR143 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:00 am:
u basically answered ur own question...u WILL get hurt...many many many hook ups are meaningless to guyz...especially girls who are throwing themselves at them...if i were u, id keep to urself and PLAY HARD TO GET...dont hook up with him unless he really likes u back!!!
lOvE kRiStIn

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frckr677 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:25 am:
yea um ill awnser this quick and easy dont hook up not yet any ways give it time if it feels right hey what the hell go for it but take your time make sure its right patience is the key to many things and your case it jsut might unluck the door

that last quote was quite the quote i must say haha srry

good luck

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XBabyRuthX15 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:01 am:
Hook up with him. If/when you sense that he isn't interested in you anymore or vise versa, you should break up with him first to beat him at his own game. But this doesn't mean you should go looking for ways to break u with him just be yourself and observe.


XBabyRuthX15

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xxoBriannax answered Thursday August 26 2004, 12:50 am:
Then don't hook up with him?








-xXoBrianna

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BrunetteBeauti answered Thursday August 26 2004, 12:46 am:
tell this guy how u feel. get to know him more and find out wut he's relly lyk. dont like someone only for looks. talk to him about how you feel. maybe theres someone better for u out ther good luck :)

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xocheercutie89 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 12:32 am:
before you even think of hooking up with him, you should talk to your friend and see if she would mind. now if his relationship with your friend wasn't serious, then i don't think she would mind too much, but just make sure!! just remember, chicks before dicks! hope it all works out for you hun! =)

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*tasha* answered Thursday August 26 2004, 12:21 am:
Hey!If you mean "hook up" as in do stuff w/ him and then it won't mean anything then I definetely think that you should not do it!Cuz thats like giving up part of you!(thats if u had sex) but then hes just using you!!!So do whats right ;)

xOXo tasha |[tell me what happends!:)]|

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