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am i prude?
Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!!
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Me and my b/f had been dating for 2 months and we hadn't kissed yet. I finally just had to kiss him!! May seem kind of slutty.. but hey, he wasn't makin the move! lol So...I say just do what I did.When you want to, just surprise him and do it! He will like it. I promise.
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omg!r u serious me 2!!! i dunno but when he trys i like back off y i dunno but i COMPLETELY understand u r u prude?i dont think so maybe its cause u arn't ready or something but im going through the exact thing u have no idea!but ya i think thats kinda normal im not sure but i just wanted to let u no ur not alone on that cause thats also my case.
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maybe your nervous? But yeah you gotta give him some lovin for being your man! Let him kiss you...or go out on a limb and kiss him when he doesn't expect it. good luck
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just relax and go w/ it. try not 2 hesitate and dont b afraid. and dont it unless u feel comfortable w/ this guy
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when you feel comfortable, surprise him and make the first move. convince yourself that you are ready for this, and that you can trust you're boyfriend.
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Yea, you're prude. Just do it.
-xXoBrianna
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no nothings wrong with you at all! maybe the reason you back off is bc you're worried on how good of a kisser you will come off as. even if your not prude you can be afriad he'll think your bad. chances are he won't notcie...as long as hes getting some? lol maybe hes afraid of getting rejected again because of the first time! lol maybe he doesn't wanna do anything now? talk to him about if you want?
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When you guys are having a really sweet moment.Like say he gives you a present or something.Give him a kiss on the cheek.Or if you wanna kiss him on the lips than go for it.But if you dont feel comfortable doing so id tell him.But if you do Just try doing wut i told u.Hope this helped!Much <33
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no it doesnt mean your prude maybe its jsut you have religous beliefs or u have set morals for yourself and your sticking to them xoxox steffy
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Alrighty. Don't worry about it. If he really loves you then he wont rush you into anything your not ready to do. Take your time and don't feel like you have to do anything. He should totally understand. Good Luck!!
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You'll kiss him when you're ready.
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First of all, no, there is NOTHING wrong with you. There are plenty of girls out there who are nervous about kissing and making moves with their boyfriend.
Before I say anything more, you should know that you don't HAVE to kiss your boyfriend. Don't feel obligated to do things with him. Make sure you love him. Kissing and making out is just a way of showing him you love him. And there are plenty of other ways to show him, if you're not comfortable with kissing him.
Now, it's hard, but you should just have an honest talk with him about what you guys are ready for at this point in your relationship. I always like to emphasize just talking it out, because it's the easiest way to find out what the hell is going on! But, if you don't think you can talk to him about this because it's sort of embarrassing to you, when you say goodbye after a date or hanging out, just give him a hug and a peck on the cheek. Maybe this will send the message that you are ready to be more intimate.
Good luck!
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Aww...
Nothing's wrong with you, sweetheart. You're just nervous. I used to get nerve attacks with my last boyfriend...we hardly ever kissed because (for one thing, he was a REALLY bad kisser) and I was just so nervous. Things improved with this one, though. ^_^
You've just gotta take a deep breath and let him kiss you, or kiss him. Don't worry about the how-to's of kissing. It comes really naturally. Just make sure you don't actually pucker your lips; keep them relaxed, but not jellylike. Lol.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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no there is nothing wrong with you!! you're just not ready to be doing that with him yet and you should let him be aware of it too. just tell him you're a little nervous about kissing him. if you do eventually feel you are ready to kiss him and like make out with him just drop one in my box and i'll give you tips on being a good kisser!
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