I'm going to be a freshman this year, and last year i fell in love with a guy who isn't going to my highschool, but i won't go into details about that. anyway, i don't want a bf this year at all like ever ever ever, but like i don't want guys to think i'm mean or anything, and i don't want to hurt anyones feelings. can i just say no with out guys getting all pi$$ed off?
DanCinNMaMii answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:43 pm: Hey, well its ur lyf n ur opinions n if u dont want a guy in ur lyf its fine no1 can say yes or no 4 u n if u r worried about them gettin mad then say it in a nice way dont say no or something with an attitude say y with a sweet tone or something cuz no1 eva wants to get hurt.
n if they get mad easily then they wod probly get madd fast n thats not good. Hope i help Millie** [ DanCinNMaMii's advice column | Ask DanCinNMaMii A Question ]
Sunshine answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:23 am: Just be honest with them. Let them know that you are willing to be friends but you aren't interested in having a boyfriend right now. If they can't handle that then that's their problem. [ Sunshine's advice column | Ask Sunshine A Question ]
SammyPie answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:27 pm: Of course. They made not be happy, but there are defintely ways to make guys less upset in the long run. You can tell them that you aren't looking for a relationship right now, or that you are getting over a past relationship. Which neither of those are lies (at least from the story you gave.) So try to think of ways to let the guys who ask you out know that you aren't against them... you're just not into having a boyfriend right now.
PuReLuVeR143 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:04 pm: ofcourse u can say no =]...as long as your totally nice and kool about it, and not seem stuck up and better than every guy that asks u out...if a guy asks u out just be like, "to be honest...im really not looking to be in a relationship right now...=]" and be really nice and sweet about it...good luck, kristin [ PuReLuVeR143's advice column | Ask PuReLuVeR143 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:42 pm: Why not? I did that all through tenth grade. I turned down every guy that asked me out and glared at the ones that hit on me. Guys won't think you're mean if you don't go "no, you're stupid" or whatever, the way I did. Lol
I was really just trying to stay away from guys 'cause I had a bit of a problem with a few of them, and decided that all guys were idiots. I hated them, didn't want a bf, so I pushed them all away as bitchily as I could.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:42 pm: guys can be really stupid sometimes but like if you just tell them hey ya know i like you and everything but i dont want a boyfriend this year. I'm sure they'll get over it if they get pissed... if not oh well forget them!
-holly-
hope i helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:39 pm: yes... just tell them your not ready for a relationship right now and ask if you can just be friends with them and then who knows, you might wanna go out with them someday. (if ya get to know them better as friends). good luck [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
LostAngel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:36 pm: yes..you can...just explain to them why you dont want to have a b/f..and just ask to be friends with them..if you need anymore help..feel free to drop one in my inbox - hope I helped ;-) [ LostAngel's advice column | Ask LostAngel A Question ]
DarKAngel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 6:36 pm: just tell then your situation and why you don't want to date anyone or you can tell them maybe if you wait i will give you a desision later [ DarKAngel's advice column | Ask DarKAngel A Question ]
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