Caroline_ answered Sunday May 9 2010, 9:06 am: There is a HUGE difference between getting a girlfriend, and getting the girl you like to be your girlfriend. If you just want A girlfriend, it shouldn't be too hard. All you would really have to do is find a girl with little to no self esteem and compliment here and ask her out. She would most likely be clingy and needy, and you probably wouldn't have very much in common, so it wouldnt last very long. Depending on your age, you might get some sexual experience of out the whole situation, but you would come to realize that its better to put in the effort to get a particular girl you are interested in to be your girlfriend than to just have a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend.
If you want to get a particular girl to like you, you might have to work a little harder. We love it when boys remember little things, like her favorite color and her birthday. If you are not already a good friend of hers, then get to know her, but make sure you dont get caught in the friend zone. Work quickly, and be confident, because confidence is really sexy. I know it is scary, but it is best to be direct. Ask her out on something that is quite clearly a date, and if she says yes, then thats great! On the date, show interest in her. Make lots of eye contact and listen attentively, and definitely do not talk about other girls. Try to break the physical barrier, but make sure to be respectful. Hold her hand or put your arm over her shoulders when walking somewhere. She is already on a date with you, so you KNOW she is at least a bit into you. If the date went really well, ask her what she is doing next weekend or something, if she seems interested in seeing you again, before you leave, lean in a little for a kiss. If she kisses you, it should be smooth sailing from there! good luck!! :DD [ Caroline_'s advice column | Ask Caroline_ A Question ]
manda44 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:19 pm: just be urself. u dont want to act like someone ur not and then make the person think ur that person and then it gets totally ruined!!! i think if u be urself and u find a girl that likes you for you then shes a keeper.
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KirksSkater answered Saturday August 28 2004, 9:53 am: go up to a girl you like, act normal like, say hi, whats up....(like normally) and plan a date to go to the movies the two of you and some other friends and sit next to her during the movie, and ask her out during it... [ KirksSkater's advice column | Ask KirksSkater A Question ]
Pequenodiablo126 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 5:16 pm: Ok..first of all, girls do not like shy guys. Or I don't anyways. I like a guy that is comfortable with himself. Not like conceited or anything, but just acts himself all the time. That is great. But also, girls like it when a guy talks to them first...and makes all the moves. Cause girls really just like the attention.lol But no seriously...just be yourself around girls, don't act shy and depressed. And I guarantee you'll find at least one girl that likes you for you!!Hope this was help! [ Pequenodiablo126's advice column | Ask Pequenodiablo126 A Question ]
DanCinNMaMii answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:55 pm: Hey, u can b urself n flirty. imma girl so i no how i want guys to act around me. U shood b nice. dont try dressing to impress cuz stuff that looks good to us might not look good to u or reverse reverse b no 1 but ur self n share the same intrests n stuff. hope i helped Milllie** [ DanCinNMaMii's advice column | Ask DanCinNMaMii A Question ]
Sunshine answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:08 am: The first step on the road to true love is friendship.
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:34 pm: Well, don't just go out with anyone that looks "hot" or whatever. First, find that girl that catches your eye and you just like her for her. Just get yourself out there though, I'm sure you're a great guy with a great personality. So, just show that off and introduce yourself to girls. Don't be shy, like in class, hold some conversations with girls. Ask for the girls number and stuff. And once you find the one you like, then try telling her you like her by saying something like "I've gotten to know you and I like everything I see about you, and I was wondering if you like me too." Just say something like that and if she likes you then just be like "Would you like to go out with me?" And see what she says. Hope this helps and good luck hun. If you need anything else just post a message in my inbox.
On3-Sh3xii-Gl answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:21 pm: Well 1st you gotta like sum1 lol...wen u find that person go up to her and tell her sumthen nice like you have beautiful eyes and u wanna get to know her im sure if that doesnt work then shes a loser lol..hoped i helped [ On3-Sh3xii-Gl's advice column | Ask On3-Sh3xii-Gl A Question ]
TrumpetChyk92 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:48 pm: You should be yourself around every1 and if u like a girl, then flirt with her. If she seems to like you 2 then ask her out.
hope i helped
good luck
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SammyPie answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:45 pm: Be yourself and be confident. Don't put on a fake personality to impress someone! Go right up to the girls you are interested in and say hello. Thats always a good way to build up a friendship first, and then you can work on turning it into a relationship! Good luck! I hope I helped! If you need ANYTHING else, feel free to ask. =) [ SammyPie's advice column | Ask SammyPie A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:41 pm: First of all, you need to like someone before you want her as your girl friend. Hang around with her a lot. Always be confident in yourself. Girls like that in a guy. When the time is right, make the move and ask her out. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
ashley00100 answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 5:18 pm: Well this is kind of a tough question to answer but if you get to know the girl for a month or so, she might like you, if she gets to know you. Go for someone who shares some of the same thoughts as you and it might work out better. [ ashley00100's advice column | Ask ashley00100 A Question ]
bunnygurl answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 4:32 pm: well you smile and flirt with girls, get to know some girls. Find one who you like, and ask her out. if she says no start over agen. And once you find a girl, do NOT try to sleep with her right a way, and do not stalk her if she says no. because if you do things like that you will have a bad reptation and never get a girl frend. [ bunnygurl's advice column | Ask bunnygurl A Question ]
Nevaeh answered Tuesday March 16 2004, 9:41 pm: How do you get a girlfriend? Look toward girls that you think you might have something in common with.. Get to know a girl before you run up and say, "hey wanna be my girl?" Doing it like that will most definitely get you a "NO". [ Nevaeh's advice column | Ask Nevaeh A Question ]
Logic-Man answered Monday March 15 2004, 6:13 pm: Simple. First become her friend. This usually works when you aren't a stupid idiotic pervert like most men are. Look for someone you have common interests with, and use those to start a friendship and build on that until you think you want to ask her out. Or do the stupid thing: ask a random attractive girl out, be together for a week and break up because you're both stupid. I reccomend the first way. You really need to spend a whole lot of time with the whole friendship thing, but you need to start with some common interest and build up a relationship. [ Logic-Man's advice column | Ask Logic-Man A Question ]
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