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how do i find a girlfriend?


Question Posted Monday March 15 2004, 5:33 pm

how do i get a girl friend

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Additional info, added Monday March 15 2004, 5:37 pm:
anyone.

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justletmebe answered Sunday May 16 2010, 9:41 pm:
depends on your age. if your still in high school join a club or go to parties. if you are in college local coffee houses bars or just through friends. if you are older then maybe dating sites. but looking isnt really a good plan just let it happen if you try to hard it seems to take longer.

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Caroline_ answered Sunday May 9 2010, 9:06 am:
There is a HUGE difference between getting a girlfriend, and getting the girl you like to be your girlfriend. If you just want A girlfriend, it shouldn't be too hard. All you would really have to do is find a girl with little to no self esteem and compliment here and ask her out. She would most likely be clingy and needy, and you probably wouldn't have very much in common, so it wouldnt last very long. Depending on your age, you might get some sexual experience of out the whole situation, but you would come to realize that its better to put in the effort to get a particular girl you are interested in to be your girlfriend than to just have a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend.

If you want to get a particular girl to like you, you might have to work a little harder. We love it when boys remember little things, like her favorite color and her birthday. If you are not already a good friend of hers, then get to know her, but make sure you dont get caught in the friend zone. Work quickly, and be confident, because confidence is really sexy. I know it is scary, but it is best to be direct. Ask her out on something that is quite clearly a date, and if she says yes, then thats great! On the date, show interest in her. Make lots of eye contact and listen attentively, and definitely do not talk about other girls. Try to break the physical barrier, but make sure to be respectful. Hold her hand or put your arm over her shoulders when walking somewhere. She is already on a date with you, so you KNOW she is at least a bit into you. If the date went really well, ask her what she is doing next weekend or something, if she seems interested in seeing you again, before you leave, lean in a little for a kiss. If she kisses you, it should be smooth sailing from there! good luck!! :DD

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PaperHeartsX3 answered Sunday May 9 2010, 2:53 am:
Be yourself..
Ask a girl to hang out.. See if she likes you, ask her on a date. :)
good luck!

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manda44 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:19 pm:
just be urself. u dont want to act like someone ur not and then make the person think ur that person and then it gets totally ruined!!! i think if u be urself and u find a girl that likes you for you then shes a keeper.
Manda

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AngelaMarie824 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 4:32 pm:
buy an elephant..

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KirksSkater answered Saturday August 28 2004, 9:53 am:
go up to a girl you like, act normal like, say hi, whats up....(like normally) and plan a date to go to the movies the two of you and some other friends and sit next to her during the movie, and ask her out during it...

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spunno answered Thursday August 26 2004, 5:22 pm:
first off how old are you and what atate ant city do you live in.

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Pequenodiablo126 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 5:16 pm:
Ok..first of all, girls do not like shy guys. Or I don't anyways. I like a guy that is comfortable with himself. Not like conceited or anything, but just acts himself all the time. That is great. But also, girls like it when a guy talks to them first...and makes all the moves. Cause girls really just like the attention.lol But no seriously...just be yourself around girls, don't act shy and depressed. And I guarantee you'll find at least one girl that likes you for you!!Hope this was help!

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DanCinNMaMii answered Thursday August 26 2004, 1:55 pm:
Hey, u can b urself n flirty. imma girl so i no how i want guys to act around me. U shood b nice. dont try dressing to impress cuz stuff that looks good to us might not look good to u or reverse reverse b no 1 but ur self n share the same intrests n stuff. hope i helped Milllie**

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Sunshine answered Thursday August 26 2004, 2:08 am:
The first step on the road to true love is friendship.

Just be a good friend and everything else will fall in place.

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XXhiGhMaIntEnCe answered Thursday August 26 2004, 12:23 am:
Be yourself!!! And don`t go looking for one .. have them come to you!! =)

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dramaqueenbabeiwb answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 11:31 pm:
lol do you like any girls? If so try makeing her get the picture by being nice to her, or asking her to dance.

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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:34 pm:
Well, don't just go out with anyone that looks "hot" or whatever. First, find that girl that catches your eye and you just like her for her. Just get yourself out there though, I'm sure you're a great guy with a great personality. So, just show that off and introduce yourself to girls. Don't be shy, like in class, hold some conversations with girls. Ask for the girls number and stuff. And once you find the one you like, then try telling her you like her by saying something like "I've gotten to know you and I like everything I see about you, and I was wondering if you like me too." Just say something like that and if she likes you then just be like "Would you like to go out with me?" And see what she says. Hope this helps and good luck hun. If you need anything else just post a message in my inbox.

xoxo Kourtney

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xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:32 pm:
Lol..








-xXoBrianna

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On3-Sh3xii-Gl answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:21 pm:
Well 1st you gotta like sum1 lol...wen u find that person go up to her and tell her sumthen nice like you have beautiful eyes and u wanna get to know her im sure if that doesnt work then shes a loser lol..hoped i helped

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7 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 9:03 pm:
sad

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TrumpetChyk92 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:48 pm:
You should be yourself around every1 and if u like a girl, then flirt with her. If she seems to like you 2 then ask her out.
hope i helped
good luck
Trumpetchyk

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xBlackButt3rflyx answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:46 pm:
ne yourself, join clubs, be really nice...dont be shy...=o)

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SammyPie answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:45 pm:
Be yourself and be confident. Don't put on a fake personality to impress someone! Go right up to the girls you are interested in and say hello. Thats always a good way to build up a friendship first, and then you can work on turning it into a relationship! Good luck! I hope I helped! If you need ANYTHING else, feel free to ask. =)

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mr_frisky_lemur answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:45 pm:
honestly that is the most basic question someone can ask on this site. For that reason, i am not answering

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Karen answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 8:41 pm:
First of all, you need to like someone before you want her as your girl friend. Hang around with her a lot. Always be confident in yourself. Girls like that in a guy. When the time is right, make the move and ask her out. Hope I helped :)

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Gabi143 answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 9:03 pm:
stop asking same questions. go search in a strip club.

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ashley00100 answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 5:18 pm:
Well this is kind of a tough question to answer but if you get to know the girl for a month or so, she might like you, if she gets to know you. Go for someone who shares some of the same thoughts as you and it might work out better.

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bunnygurl answered Wednesday March 17 2004, 4:32 pm:
well you smile and flirt with girls, get to know some girls. Find one who you like, and ask her out. if she says no start over agen. And once you find a girl, do NOT try to sleep with her right a way, and do not stalk her if she says no. because if you do things like that you will have a bad reptation and never get a girl frend.

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Nevaeh answered Tuesday March 16 2004, 9:41 pm:
How do you get a girlfriend? Look toward girls that you think you might have something in common with.. Get to know a girl before you run up and say, "hey wanna be my girl?" Doing it like that will most definitely get you a "NO".

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horseluv975 answered Tuesday March 16 2004, 10:45 am:
just be yourselef! if she doesn't like u, it's not worth it.!

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Cocoabean24/7 answered Monday March 15 2004, 10:30 pm:
ask someone you like over the phone. So if the girl says no, then no one will know.

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Logic-Man answered Monday March 15 2004, 6:13 pm:
Simple. First become her friend. This usually works when you aren't a stupid idiotic pervert like most men are. Look for someone you have common interests with, and use those to start a friendship and build on that until you think you want to ask her out. Or do the stupid thing: ask a random attractive girl out, be together for a week and break up because you're both stupid. I reccomend the first way. You really need to spend a whole lot of time with the whole friendship thing, but you need to start with some common interest and build up a relationship.

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