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Hey this is Audrey! This is my advice column and I`m trying to help people with their problem`s! I have been thru a lot in my life and have had a whole bunch of different issue`s so I`m trying to help out other`s!

[x] Name: Audrey
[x] Birthdate: May 22th 1988
[x] Birthplace: B*More
[x] Current Location: My house!
[x] Eye Color: Blue
[x] Hair Color: Blonde
[x] Righty or Lefty: Lefty!!!
[x] Zodiac Sign: Gemini
[x] Innie or Outtie: Innie!

-----------------NUMBER OF-----------------
[x] Number of boyfriends you've had: O =(
[x] Number of drugs taken illegally:
[x] Number of people I could trust with my life: 1
[x] Number of CDs that I own: to0o many!!
[x] Number of piercings: 7
[x] Number of tattoos: O
[x] Number of times my name has appeared in the newspaper?: A few...
[x] Number of scars on my body: Too many!!!
[x] Number of things in my past that I regret: You shouldn't regret anything you`ve done because at one point you wanted it more then ever!!
----------------FAVORITES------------------
[x] Shampoo: Bed Head Dumb Blonde
[x] Fav Color(s): Pink!
[x] Day/Night: Night
[x] Summer/Winter: Winter!
[x] Lace or Satin: Satin!
[x] Fave Cartoon Character:
[x] Fave Food: Lobster
[x] Fave Movies: Sleepover haha
[x] Fave sport: Horseback Riding
---------------DO YOU BELIEVE IN--------------
[x] Yourself: YES!
[x] Your friends: Yes
[x] Santa Claus: Yes!
[x] Tooth Fairy: Nah ..
[x] Destiny/Fate: Def.!
[x] Angels: YES!
[x] Ghosts: Sometimes ..
[x] UFO's: No
[x] God: YES!
--------FRIENDS AND LIFE------------------
[x] Do you ever wish you had another name?: No
[x] Do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?: No
[x] Do you like anyone?: Yes
[x] Which one of your friends acts the most like you?:
[x] Who have you known the longest of your friends?: Chelsea
[x] Are you close to any family member?: Yes
[x] Who do you hang around the most?: Jennifer
[x] When have you cried the most:
[x] What's the best feeling in the world?: Knowing that you are being yourself!
[x] Worst Feeling?: Being told that you can't do anything!
E-mail: Snuffles22002@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Maryland
AIM: bacardii barbii
Member Since: May 30, 2004
Answers: 29
Last Update: August 26, 2004
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I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now? (link)
You should ask her to chyll! Go to the mall or movies or just chyll at your house and introduce her to your friends. See what classes she has, if you guys have any. =)


i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!? (link)
My friend had the same problem as you, but her relationship he abused her. He seems like the jelous type, and he still likes you. I would tell him that I`m not going to not talk to my guy friends because of you, he might flip again, but theirs like no other way to say it. It is unhealthy though to listen to everything your boyfriend or a guy says! Remember that!! =)


okay, i have a question, i like this one guy, and he likes me back, but the problem is that he lives far away like 20 minutes away, and we can hardly see each other, were're not going out or anything, we just like each other a lot, we want to see each other more, well at least i do, i like this guy alot, but i don't know what to do, can u help me?? (link)
I think you guys can work around it! Or you can always meet at places in the middle to hang out so it's an even distance. Or wait until you drive so it will be easier!! =)


13/f ok i was going out with my bf for like 2 or 3 years. we broke up last year and he started going out with this one popular girl. she's a real snot to everyone except her "popular" friends and i don't see why he likes her. he's been kinda checking me out this summer and he's in my class this year and she's not. is there any way that i could get him to like me again??? i really need help with this! (he's not the bad boy type he's more the nice guy type) help!!
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Just be yourself!! ;-) If you had that long of a relationship before with him, I`m sure he`s reliezing damn I miss that girl, and how much of a snob this other girl is! That`s all I have to really say .. and charm him!! =)


Well there's this boi, and he goes to my school and all that yatta yatta. But I like him, and I jux found out what his name was, we've never really talked or anything like that before....but a while ago, he was @ my neighbors house, and he was checkin me out, and he was about to go somewhere and he was like I'll be right, you gonna be back out here, and I was like yeah I will, and he was like okay. But yeah, I noticed that he rides my bus and I jux realized how cute he is, and yatta yatta. My patna asked if he was single and lookin and he said yeah, and she described me to him, and she says for me to talk to him but what do I say?????? (link)
Awwe! You should just talk to him normal! How you would talk to a good guy friend and take it from there! Just ask him what he's into any sports and see if you guys can chyll one time!! =)


how do i get a girl friend (link)
Be yourself!!! And don`t go looking for one .. have them come to you!! =)


My friends tell me I am really flirtacious and I guess its not bad thing, is it? I feel like i focus on them a lot, but definetly i have always put chicks before di-- ha ha inapropiate ill just say guys. Well the thing is I realised I need to forget Alex because it can't happen. I just wanna have a really good relationship with a guy. For once I want something that can last, and whenever we see each other we wave or give a hug and I can put notes in his locker. I jsut want something like that but since I am flirty I don't wanna seem desperate.. what do i do? (I hope this makes sense) (link)
I think you should tell him whats up, and see if their can be a possible relationship between you too. Because you always end up getting hurt in the long run not telling guys what's up!! If not, let the guys come to you, that's what always happens, when your not out looking for them, they come to you!! =)


I like this guy Brian, and he likes me back. He doesn't want to ask me out though because he thinks asking people out is dumb because then they never really do anything. I can see where he is coming from but I mean com'on! Well my friend was talking to him and she was agreeing with him on everything about hot you never go out and you stop talking, and I mean i guess it's kinda true. But I really want him to ask me out! So it's kind of like she is working against me. Then after she said I should be thankful for her even sending me the conversation, which was totally useless because all it did was make me upset. What should I say to her to make her realize how I'm feeling? By the way I'm in 7th grade. (link)
If this boy likes you, and you like him and you guys chyll a lot I think you should just say hey lets go out or something spontanious! Be different! As for your friend, I think you should just tell her how your feeling. Everyone has their own opinions! And for the boy just tell him or do it youself!! =)


My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal? (link)
Yes, I think it's normal. But remember, theirs an even better guy out there waiting for you!! =)


im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl.... (link)
I think it's fine, you should go out with whoever you like and shouldn't be influenced by what people think. But everyone talks. I know a girl who was a senior in highschool and went out with a jr in high school for about 3 years .. but yes I think it's fine! =)


okay, well i am very blessed that i am not overweight, BUT the only problem is that my legs are huge! this might sound cheesy, but i'm serious! it's as if my legs dont match my body! i want to lose the weight but i dont exactly have time to exercise. i wear a skirt to school because the pants are awkward. what can i do to lose the weight? Or make them look thinner? (link)
You should do squats! They tone the inner thigh of your leg and helps a lot believe me!! Take about a five lb. weight and hold it in both hands spread your legs about shoulder width apart and have your feet facing sort of outward and just do squats. About 2 sets of 15 should work real good!! Just make sure your knees don`t go over your toes!! =)


Ok..Well...About 5 months ago me and my "BFF" stoppped being friends because, well, im not sure, i think it was because her other friends didnt want her to be friends with me, so the other night i said some stuff to her, since she wouldnt leave me alone ((talking to me online)) and saying she was just friends with me outta pity, blah blah. And now she is posting our conversations in her public diary, and getting my other ex-friends all against me. Its like...one little bitch, but shes so powerful! I literaly want to like..RYhwehgfwejlvf Haha i get pissed at her!! And she is teling poeple i lie about my personal problems, byut then w(hy)tf would i lie about having depression. Help me!! AND IM NOT APOLOGIZING I ALREADY DID LIKE 10 TIMES BEFORE AND SHE WAS GAY! x0x0x, me. (link)
DON`T APOLOGIZE ANYMORE. The same thing happened to me. I cannot tell you how many "BFF" I have had that have stabed me in the back. This is just high school teenage girl drama. The girls don`t like you because they are jelous of you and that's really it. I mean your nice to everyone .. they CANNOT stand that. I would say just block her and ignore her. She is the "ring leader" My honest advice is to try and forget about her.. I know its hard.. and make friends with the boys. They are the greatest friends you can have. I have had so many rummors about me going around my school I actually got out of high school and am now attneding college trust me I know how you feel. If I can help anymore let me know =)


(14/f) i have a hard time getting along with girls. i only have 3 really close friends that are girls and 2 of them are changing alot and i'm begining not to like how they are acting lately. the majority of my friends are boys. i really can't stand being friends with girls! they always find a way to piss me off and with my guy friends... they are so much more easy going! my friend amanda she's been my best friend for about 3 years and she's the same way as me so i guess that's why we get along. but is there something wrong with me that i don't like being around girls and i just like being around guys?? (link)
Ahh!! I am with you girl! THEIR IS NOTHING WRONG WITH NOT GETTING ALONG WITH GIRLS. I cannot get along with any. I actually have just 1 best friend, and actually, she just betrayed me, but guys are THE BEST FRIENDS they give THE BEST advice and you can go to them foreverything!!! I am 16 years old and it's always been this way for me. But I must warn you being friends with the boys the girls are going to become jelous of you, so be prepared for being called a slut, a bitch a whole all of that. But you know it's not true and hold your head up high. I went threw it all, it got so bad I just got out of high school and now I am attending college. But if I could do any of this all over again, I would of never became friends with so many girls, because they will be the first ones to stab you in the back!! =)


I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal? (link)
Heyy I am 16 girl, and still haven't had a boyfriend! Of course it's normal! Keep doing what your doing! And wait for that one special guy that just catches your eye and makes you the center of his world!! =)


what does it mean when a guy "eats a girl out" or when a girl gives a guy "head"??? (link)
When a guy eats a girl out, he goes down and licks a girl and sucks her with his mouth and uses a lot of his tounge like he would do with his fingers, at her crouch. And trys to make her orgasm.

When a girl gives a guy head she goes down and sucks his penis, she goes up and down and sucks it and sometimes plays with his balls until he cums then she can either swallow it or spit it.

=)


my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice (link)
No girl! Just be yourself! That's that should matter, I mean seriously would you want a boy just to go out with you because you were a size O. It's like you having to dye your hair blonde if your hair is brown for a boy that only goes out with blondes. Seriously girl! I've learned all this!! Be yourself! And you are perfectly fine with your height and weight!! =)


i used to drink alot and i mean alot of pop and now im stopping to lose weight but lately ive been getting really bad headaches my mom said its because of the lack of caffine are there any other
ways to get caffine but are healthy too
i rate ! --thanks (link)
Where are you from? I'm from Maryland, and we call it soda! =) Anyway, Also drinking a lot of caffine can give you headachs. But your body is most likly going through caffine withdraw, so that's why your getting them!! =)


I keep my computer on pretty much 24 hours a day. It doesn't really seem to be a problem. But earlier today I went to check my computer and it had a blue tint over everything. It has done this before, but last time I just refreshed the desktop, and it went back to normal. This time, I've tried refreshing it and restarting it and it doesn't seem to want to go back to normal. I don't know what I did to make it go blue, and it's a very pretty blue, but I would like to have my normal screen back.

Does anyone have any idea what could be going on? (link)
Try to do a system restore. Go to start - programs - assecorities - system tools - system restart. And restore your computer to about a week ago. Hope I could help! =)


Saturday I was out at the mall with my friend. We go out together almost every night, but we never really have set plans...just hang out and find random things to do. While we were shopping, my cousin called to ask if I could babysit. I told him I would call him back and I told my friend. She told me to do whatever I wanted and I asked several times if she would rather me hang out with her. She said it was fine and I apologized because I felt like I was ditching her. She still told me it was fine. Well she hasn't talked to me since. I've left messages on her computer and her phone and still nothing and I dont' know what else to do! Did I do something wrong that I am not seeing? And should I just give her time to come around? (link)
I've had people do things like that to before, and I'm sorry to have to say, you've done all that you could to try and get her to come around. The same thing happened to me and I did the same thing things you did, and I know you feel like it's all your fault, but it isn't. There's other people out there, It took me awhile to learn that. Even if you have to be your only friend for awhile. Trust me, I've been through all the girl drama, she's just trying to give you the cold shoulder. You've done all you can do. Hope I could help =)


whats the best way to scrunch thick hair? (link)
You should use a diffuser! They sell them at the store, or buy a "hair net" it goes over top of your blowdryer end and helps to diffuse it (make it curly) I use bedhead products like Super Scrunch, also using a curl enahnching shampoo really helps like Curl Life from Matrix. It includes a 3 step styling products, thats designed for curly hair!




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